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I met him 8 years ago. I have a feeling he likes me more than friends. When we first met, we went clubbing and he held my hand the whole night and wrapped his hands around me. He likes to put his head on my shoulder. He tried to kiss my cheeks two birthdays in a row. Life happened. He never took the step to approach me. I never did anything to approach him either. We both met someone else. He has been single for 1 year now and I’m recently single.

After the break up, I decided to contact him. We talked for hours on the phone. He told me that he would NEVER talk to girl for this long unless he’s interested. We have been going to movies and dinner alone. I met someone new and he never took a step forward. I went for the other guy and we broke up after 6 months.

Once, he purposely came earlier to my house than my friends. He wanted me to cook dinner & have a few drinks. Even my friend thought it was weird. I posted photos of us hugging and getting close on social media. He liked one of the photos. A lot of people thinks that we’re dating & he’s okay with it.

We went drinking last week and got drunk. He had his arms wrapped around me. My ex texted me wanting to see me. He saw and he grabbed my phone from my hand and messaged my ex i don’t want to see you. I was mad @ him. He then came to me, grabbed my arms, and told me if I can start focusing him instead of my ex. He then forced me to go to his friend’s house to chill. Both his friends were talking about how we should totally date and making fun of us. We took a cab home. He held my hand in the cab. I asked why are we holding hands and if he’s taking advantage of me. He said it’s mutual. He then rest his head on my shoulders. He said to me, “can you not treat me so good?” The next day, he texted me & I didn’t reply. He then sent me a snap-chat photo with a message saying that he’s having a hangover. I replied him but he did not respond. Am I thinking too much? 2 of our mutual friends thinks that he likes me.

I love dresses, I love to wear skirts and dresses. But my mom wants me to wear them less for some reason. Like for example she won't let me wear a skirt two days in a row, she only will let me wear a skirt once a week and won't allow me to wear the skirt twice or three times a week but she will let me wear pants, and sweat pants as many times as i want. Even then it's a fight to wear a dress. my school was going on a trip to a fancy hotel and my mom made me wear pants to the event even though I had a beautiful dress that was available for me to wear. She also told me to take off my dress and made me wear pants to prom. I really wanted to wear a dress but she said no and I basically had to change clothes and wear the pants she bought me. :/ I was probably the only girl wearing pants. It really sucked. i was 17-18 at the time.

My dad also says that I can't have a boyfriend until I'm 30 and at 16 I wasn't allowed to date in high school. :/ Now, I have basically finshed high school and I wonder how will they try to raise me now. :/

So say that there is girl you are sleeping with (be it an ex or girl you once dated or just a girl), but you knew she had feelings for you and you kept things vague besides saying you do care for her and you guys never clearly set the boundaries of having a bootycall/fuck buddy/fwb/casual sex relationship.
You put in little effort, but did bootycall her every weekend (sometimes two nights in a row), slept over with her, cuddled, very affectionate, and though she is responsible for agreeing a few of those times to have sex with you, you were only there for sex despite knowing how she felt.

Then one night when you bootycalled, she flat out told you that it's not cool for you to text her for sex only at your convenience.

1) Even if it were true, how would this make you feel and what would you respond (if anything)?

2) Would you feel differently if it was a girl you had a history with (esp. if she stood by you and put up with your shit) versus just a girl that you set up for sex off the bat?