Long story short, I found out that the guy I've been seeing for two weeks is in fact a player. I do blame myself for falling into this because he slid into my Instagram DMs and we did have sex on the first date. (2 major red flags- Hello!) I have looked into the profiles of some of the girls he went out with from Instagram and realized a pattern - he would stalk them and hang out with them for maybe once or twice, then he would completely stop talking to them. So I am aware that there's a possibility that he will be doing the same to me soon. We still hanged out a few times (which is quite rare considering how he usually dumps girls right after sex) and I'm meeting him again tomorrow night. I have found out that he has still followed different new girls on instagram and god knows if he had went out with them. I did get close to his best friend (who he introduced me to on the second date), and he surprisingly has been really genuine and nice to me. He invited me to party with him and the playboy guy I'm seeing tomorrow night, and I suddenly feel nervous after finding out the kind of person he is. The playboy boy who I'm seeing did go strangely cold and quiet after we had sex for the first time, and I always managed to keep in touch and his best friend also wanted to hang out with me so I guess he could not let go of me that fast yet. What should I do now? In all honestly, I think I've fallen for him (GOD DAMMIT). I still wanna have fun and continue the good times, but there is a danger that he is using me just like the other girls... please help.
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