Is he a player?

[Anonymous]

Guy friend was messaging me asking if I'm looking for the right guy and then proceeded to ask me this.

[kyleelyn199723]

Yeah sounds like he’s a player but he’s trying to sugar it up with “but I’m out of my hoe phase” never ever take words for the truth. If a guy can tell you he’s interested in hooking up with multiple women, he’s not over his hoe phase

[Asker]

Yeah the part where he said "until the right time to tell them" threw me off. So he's gonna tell all of them?

[kyleelyn199723]

@asker a man that has class and morals wouldn’t openly tell a woman he wants to hook up with multiple women

[Hangry06]

Yeah. He's trying to make you feel he's ready to settle down

[Anonymous]

Not enough information to process it looks like he's trying to sniff you out