Is he or is he not a player?

[Anonymous]

If a girl is flirting sexually with a guy who’s trying to get to know me and they’ve known each other/been friends “for years”, should I trust this dude isn’t a player?

[Hulk_kitty]

The only really way to get know if someone is a player, is talking to the person, and seeing if their actions match thier words.

Players are charmers, they fill with you with loads of compliments, and try to get you in the bedroom ASAP. Once they have slept with you, its bye bye.

I would say, players are full of words, but no action when it comes to committing to a relationship with you.

If I was in your position, don't give any guy sex, unless he is committed to a relationship with you.

You can only get played, by giving the player what he want, and when he wants it.

[Anonymous]

If you don't know by now, then obviously he's not a player.