Is he a player?

[Anonymous]

Since I went on first date with I guy I like things went well then two days later he started acting quiet after we kissed he got sexual I said I dont want just sex now he's avoiding me like the plague I sent him a snap not opened it seen he liked other girls pics would you say he's a player?

[MTC29]

If he was the least bit interested in you, he would have contacted you. He wanted to have sex, and you told him no. He's moved on. You should to.

[Asker]

Yeah very true I am now for my own sanity 😊

[MTC29]

You seem like a level headed young lady. Maintain your standards and don't buy into the sex on the first date BS. Any guy who is genuinely interested in you will set the sex aside (at least for a while) in order to get to know you better. Your 25-29. Well, it's no different with women 55-59. Trust me on this.

[Asker]

Aww thanks I do respect myself too much tbh like you said that's all he is interested in we'd had only been on 1 date i wanted to take it slow then eventually relationship but by the looks of it he's moved on I kind of expected it as happened to me so much just so glad I didn't have sex with him if this is the type of person he is and I'm 27 and that's very true x

[In_Trance]

every single person is a player. Most are just shitty at it

[Asker]

You're actually right tbh everyone I've met or been with has been players and yeah is a shitty thing to do.

[boggboss]

Possibly

[Asker]

Tbh I was kind of expecting something like this to happen

[boggboss]

Sorry to hear that how comes

[Asker]

It's okay hun and had it so much