Is he a player, or just confused?

[Anonymous]

So about 6 months ago I met this guy, we were hanging out for awhile and then two weeks into knowing him we hooked up. Prior to this we talked constantly, and the hookup was great. we both had fun and seemed to really care about each other. but the next day I became freaked out about commitment and stopped talking to him. we saw each other occasionally from that point on. for example, once we were at the same night club and then we ended up dancing with eachother. and another time, pretty recently, I ran into him at my friends party. I finally realized I missed him and sent him a text and we started talking again. he admitted to liking me and we have been talking since. but recently we made plans, and he completely blew them off

wtf? is he worth my time, or should I move on? I've been hung up on him for so long

thanks in advance for the help =)

[Steve-L]

You know what? Ask him. Tell him what you just said to everyone here, and then find out. From what it sounds like you freaked on the trust, lots of people do. Take it slow, both people show trust, and things are incredible. He saw you got freaked out, and went on with his life. Most likely thinking you wanted him, he wanted you, your great friends, but you aren't able to make being two people simple, relaxing, and fun. Like a warm breeze. He blew you off, because you stopped talking to him. If one person shows it's simple but not magnetic, the other person feels it's alright to do the same. find out if he's worth your time. a majority of people online aren't smart enough or dominant enough to tell this to you. Go ask him right now, and keep communicating with guys like that. Who knows if you start doing it maybe it will spread to countless others. Same advise for guys, if a girl is attracted to me, she'll show it, and I'll talk to her. What happens from now till the day I die, is based upon two people. Unless your freaky, it's two :D So keep it simple yo, for real, be boss, kick the game, even if your single, there is no game it's just simple

[Asker]

Yea I gotcha, but I mean I did try to make it simple. we started talking again only because I completely spilled my guts to him. I told him that it was really stupid we couldn't be just friends. and he agreed. so then we started talking on AIM and one thing led to another and he told me that after we hooked up he really liked me. and then I told him that I felt that way too but I just got freaked out by all the rumors that people were starting about us.

[Xo-Babe-Xo93]

sounds.like a player to me I think maybe he was lookin for a girl(you) to you use you know what mean.And that was really rude that he blew you off I was tell him off it was you.