I can’t tell if he’s a player or he’s friend-zoned me?

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I can’t tell if he’s a player or he’s friend zoned me?

There’s a guy who I met through matching on Tinder with 2 years ago. We went on one date and ever since it’s been nothing but hanging out at his apartment since. We’ve waited over Covid to hangout so it’s been about a year since we last hung out. He’s told me the last time we were together last month that I’m gorgeous and literally one of the nicest girls he’s ever met - and he’s allowed me to meet his friends. But he’s also lied about having social media that I know he has. He enjoys talking to me but has opened up to me about going out with other girls - and that he has a habit of going out with a girl and then just moving on (… not sure if I fit that category yet) and he’s shown no romantic interest in taking things further.

He hasn’t ghosted me but he hasn’t reached out to hangout again (which leads me to believe I am more on the friendzone track) and I’ve seen him go out with other women since.

I’m not mad about just being friends but I’m just confused on how he claims I’m the longest girl he’s ever talked to and he hasn’t pursued anything.

Any advice is appreciated - as I am confused and contemplating on reaching out to make things platonic.
I can’t tell if he’s a player or he’s friend-zoned me?
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