Should I be ashamed of trusting him?

[Anonymous]

I was good friends with a guy, he was in the same course as me. So I trusted him. He showed me respect. He came to my house and was sooo grateful I let him in my house. Which I thought was weird because we get along.

He told me how his dad is in prison and is part of a gang in Brasil and how he (my friend) was part responsible for the murder of someone when he was a young teenager. I didn’t expect any of this shit.

I’m not sure what to believe. We’re in good medical careers where this is unheard of. But….. I’m just shocked, he’s a good guy but I let him into my house 🤮 I hate criminals.

I’m confused. He was telling me how I accepted him. I have other friends who have no clue and friends with him.

I’m not sure what to think. How can he afford so much money to go to a private medical school. He’s broke he was telling me.

You made a mistake in judgement, you should feel bad

No you didn’t, he’s a friend

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He also feels about it. Saying, ‘I’m going to hell’

I still don’t think he’s a bad person.

But I hate bad people. They’re scum

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah dude, that's super messed up stuff for your friend to be telling you. I can understand feeling conflicted about it.

On one hand, he seems like a good friend to you and doesn't act like a sketchy dude. But knowing his family could be in some real deep criminal stuff is definitely unsettling.

I wouldn't freak out too much yet though. People aren't always defined by what their relatives do, you know? And it sounds like he feels bad about any part he played as a kid too.

Maybe give him the benefit of the doubt for now, but be a little more careful about letting him in your personal space alone. And I'd stop accepting any stories about criminal activities - just change the subject if he brings it up.

You probably don't need to stress too much if he's never given you a direct reason not to trust him personally. But keep your guard up a bit more. And definitely don't get involved if he talks about any illegal plans for the future, you feel me?

Just play it chill for now. But trust your gut if you ever feel like he could be hiding something shady still going on. Better safe than sorry in the end, right bro?

[molonski2]

Seriously , get this dude out of your life , I personally have been sucked in by these people before , he is a criminal , he will not change , he is an accessory to murder , just move slowly away from him and no longer associate , criminals are criminals.

Association is everything and you sound like you are a good guy , say that way , get him out of your life for good.

[Nikki1989]

You shouldn't trust any man till you have very good reasons to do so.

[Iron_Man]

Don’t bring strangers into your home that you just met. This sounds suspicious to me. Be careful.

[Abbycado]

Right XD

[Asker]

Sounds like you’re a beg for points

[Asker]

Reported for nonsense

[Abbycado]

Nope. Just don’t believe a word of this drivel.

[Asker]

Thanks for you’re useless invaluable input.

You might as well not have answered. F off

[Asker]

Don’t even know how to answer a question.
Women can’t read

[In_Trance]

I call bullshit