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I dated a guy named Brandon for like 7 months, he was my first serious relationship. He took all my firsts and I thought he was the one for me and i know how stupid that sounds because I'm so young but I really loved him. I found out while we were dating that he cheated on me with my best friend and I still stayed with him because he told me he really loved me and he said he didn't cheat on me even though 4 people told me he did. But I trusted him and stayed with him. I was going through a lot at that time and I was sent to the hospital because my family was scared I was going to have a heart attack because of problems I was having. Brandon ended up leaving me while I was in the hospital because he said he couldn't handle me being sick. I was in the hospital for 2 weeks and it was probably the hardest time in my life and I really needed him there but he wasn't. Once I got out of the hospital people told me that he was flirting with girls at our school without me knowing while we were dating. We didn't talk for like 5 months after that and then he hit me up saying he couldn't live without me and that he wants me to marry him. So we got back together and then a few days after we are back together I find out he is telling another girl the same things he is saying to me so we called it quits. Now he wants me back again and he is going through some tough stuff and he seems like he has changed, he says he needs me. But I'm scared what if he hurts me again? should I get back with him?

My boyfriend and I have an agreement that we can look through each other's phones whenever we wanted (personally I didn't mind because I have nothing to hide) buta couple of days ago, I decide to take his phone while he left to the store but I was joking around about it until I got bored and decided to look through his texts and I was reading through this one conversation between him and a coworker of his and these texts were from September 2015 and looking at those texts I read, he was flirting with her and then she then found out about me by adding him on Facebook and questions him about it and he admitted that he is dating me and then the girl states that what he was doing is wrong and that he shouldn't be doing this kind of stuff And after he comes back from the store, I stay silent until he noticed there was something wrong and I expressed how I felt about that and I have very mixed feeling about it because one I'm upset but at the same time I'm glad I found out about it now instead of back then and after finding that out I decided to get snooping but I didn't find anything else so I was relieved as well but I'm still upset of course.

So my crush and I have confessed we liked eachother. We write paragraphs to eachother, write songs for eachother, and even write letters. We agreed that we won't be dating for a LONG time. He said "I have to admit truly from my heart I have strong feelings for you too.", "I'm so lucky to have you as a best friend and I don't know maybe more in the future, who knows what the future will hold" and "I'm on the same page as you. Maybe when you're ready for a relationship I'll be. As a bonus the age gap won't matter. You just have to keep in touch when you leave me at school and from there we can just live in the moment ❤💎"

Earlier today he was flirting and then ranted about his science teacher. I laughed so much he said he's gonna write a whole story for me for tomorrow. I quote "you can keep it and read it whenever you get sad."

Today he was telling me how a girl broke up with her boyfriend to get with him and he turned her down and she got back with the other guy. He said how if he were that boyfriend he would never take her back. He mentioned how she's pretty but not loyal so "screw that." Then he sent me a picture of her and said
"she is pretty" "admit it."
Isaid "oh yeah" " dont make me too jealous now, you do know I like you 😂"
Him: "haha"
Me: "just haha? 😂
"Him: "idk 😂"
Me:" so while were on that type of topic, I have a question. What would you rate me /10? Be brutal 😂😛
"Him: "9 because there's always room for improvement 😂❤" (I said that about his song before)
Me: aww❤ you're just trying to butter me up 😂😛"
Him: sorry did you say something? I went blind for that message only sorry 😂😂😂😂
Me: oh okay let me say it again then 😛😛
"Him: no its okay 😂😂

Does he find her prettier? Do you think he would've jumped into a relationship? Was he lying when he said I'm a nine? He says he's straight up with everyone but he tries to word it nicely with me BC I'm the only person he cares about hurting their feelings and he doesn't ever want to do that to me.

Ok so me and my boyfriend have been online dating for almost 3 years. I love him so much and we consider our love and relationship to be real and serious well he says I'm his first girlfriend ever and that he never had a relationship before me. Well I remember him on another website (the one where we met from) before we started talking dating flirting and sending out flirt/love emojis and saying how awesome she is. When we first started he said she was his ex and that they made an agreement that when they found someone in real life that they'd break up. Ok, fast foward to 2 years of us being together he says that I'm his first and that she was a *pretend gf* and that made me think what am I to you then? He said I'm real and that I'm his first girlfriend ever he made me insecure, jealous, and made me have trust issues. I used to bring it up and get angry at him everyday for it til the point he said that same things over and over to be that I was his first that I calmed down but every once in a while it still eats at me and is in the back of my mind. Like today I was showing him my new laptop and I said "let me search your username on google to see what we'll find" then I seen what I saw a long long time ago that pissed me off his Yahoo answer profile with him flirting w/ that same girl. I couldn't help but click it and got annoyed which said he was last active 4 years ago. He was telling me to get off but I got upset and over reacted and was questioning what a pretend gf/date is. He hung up on me and I was calling him back and we talked a little. I got upset and started crying. I asked him if I messaged her and asked if you guys ever dated what would she say he said "Idk". I don't care it's just the fact he said "pretend gf* and said I was his first girlfriend.. It doesn't make any sense to me? I don't understand. What do you think and did I overreact or would you feel the same way I do? He just hung up on me and said his phone was dying even though I was crying. I think he fell asleep.. I feel bad now