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It's seriously starting to get on my nerves. I'm the only one out of my group that is still a virgin, and it's not because I haven't had opportunities or chances, because I have had quiet a few in the past honestly. But I never went through with it, and ruined it.

It's just really unnerving thinking about potentially being locked down, and taken but at the back of my head it's telling me that I want that, but it scare's the shit out of me. I didn't even follow through with the chances I had of girls that literally only wanted sex, nothing more, and I still didn't do it even tho I found all of them pretty attractive. It's just something about relationships/sex that part of me want's to experience it more than anything, but then reality set's in and it make's me nervous even thinking about it.

I don't even know what to say to girl's on Tinder, I just usually end up getting matches and just never initiating anything. Which is the opposite of what I want to be, I love being spontaneous and in depth. But I just draw a blank and worry about screwing up, and end up screwing up. Even if the girl somehow stay's talking to me, I usually end up just dropping it before it get's anymore past that. If tired of doing this, and I don't know what I'm so afraid of. I love adrenaline rushes, yet this type of adrenaline make's me feel too nervous.

What can I do about it? Is the best option to just start talking to girl's on Tinder and Facebook and just see if anything happen's and just take it as far as it goes? Because that really make's me nervous for no reason, but I know I have to do something about it because I should have year's ago honestly. Does anyone have any tips on thing's to say, or thing's to do? I'm kind of behind most of my age group since I'm 20 and I still have this problem, but I need to do something. Any kind of help is appreciated lol