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So, I've got this second cousin who was adamant that modern society made it hundreds of times better to be a woman than it did to be a man, that living life as a woman would be laughably easy compared to the difficulty of living life as a man, and that becoming a woman would give him near-total freedom to do and say whatever he wanted without any repercussions or recrimination. In his words, "a white woman can get away with anything, a black dude can't get away with shit"; "everyone loves a white woman, everyone hates a black man".

But he didn't merely join MGTOW, or keep on bemoaning his lot in life like many of the guys on here. Almost a decade ago, he decided to go all the way, got an sex-change operation and became a transgender woman, as well as bleaching his skin to become more 'white'. Not because he identified as a white woman (he still refers to himself as a man , but merely because he wanted to be one, because becoming one would enable him to "live life on easy mode".

And by all accounts, including his (/her) own, it has. Whereas he (she) was unemployed for years as a black man, with a criminal record after having been convicted and imprisoned for jaywalking of all things, he/she's now been employed for the past eight years, and risen to a high-ranking position with a high salary (thanks largely to equal opportunities and LGBTQ employment initiatives) as a trans-white trans-woman. He (/she) even has a sex life now, and has several friends with benefits relationships with girls, whereas he'd still been a 28yr old male virgin before the sex change.

And he/she still boasts that it's all down to the sex change, citing his/her own life as proof-positive that it's a hundred times better and easier to live life as a woman than it is to live life as a man. So, what's your opinion of my second cousin? What do you think of his/her life-changing decision and his actions, and of his reasoning for taking that course of action? And why?

You've known each other and had feelings for each other for a while, and you've been exclusive partners for at least a couple of weeks. You're ready and eager to take the next step, and get sexual with them- but she/he refuses, demanding that you get a full set of STI tests and show him/her the STI test results first. Otherwise, she/he'll never consider having sex with you, because they "have to be 100% sure that you're clean first" and "can't trust you". This is in spite of them already being fully aware that you're a virgin who's never had sex with anyone before.

How would you react, if you were in this situation in a relationship and your partner presented you with this ultimatum? How would you feel about it?

So I seen a question today asking if you would be ok with your partner having slept with over 100 people. But would you be ok with your partner never having had sex before and being a virgin?