Search Results: is marriage the goal

- A girl wanting to wait till marriage or engaged but getting either tricked or strung along by a bf; she eventually losses it before marriage and gets dumped... he only wanted to get in her pants basically. Hence, she feels devastated, used and it was a waste of time. She really thought she would settle with him.

Or what actually happened to me... I feel somewhat similar to that girl (in the sense that a promised life goal was thrown away) but only it never happened.

- Guy respects her wish from the beginning of waiting till marriage or engagement after finishing college even when he isn't too much into religion. He's been with her since the beginning of his sophomore year of HS (both same age; now 20 and in college) and suddenly she breaks up for no reason other than wanting to see others. He's still a virgin as a result and just like the girl feels upset and devastated about the break up.

we get bombarded with axe commercials saying hair is everything, there are a lot of pretty boy types that spend almost as much time on their hair as women now but I want to know if it really matters, I mean I understand if its unkept and looks dirty etc, but my reason for asking is I'm a 19 year old who about a year ago develped a scalp condition where my hair thinned, top sides everywhere looked bad, I shaved it to the skin, not really any other options, I pull it off okay, I'm not jacked or a model but face and head shape work etc. and after an initial panic over the loss I used to it and didn't care. I shave my head I stand out so what? but after reading countless posts on the internet about guys who lost hair young saying you can forget about attractive women the same age now (keep in mind what they said not I) saying they used to get all the girls now get none, that really kills my confidence, I've never had a serious girlfriend or anything close to it really (I lived in a small town with very few options), and marriage young was a big goal of mine, and I admit that looks factor in, I have decent standards-we need to find a person attractive before we can open the door to something more serious I understand women think the same as well and can respect that. But it seems hard to believe to me that just because I don't have hair uptop that girls will usually write me off (as far as a date anyway) So young ladies, is hair that important that it kills a guy's attractiveness if he has none? Have you ever thought a guy with a shaved head was attractive (please don't use celebirty examples) and do you think that with no hair at this age it will make dating or attacting girls much more difficult? Or are those guys who wrote on other forums about how no hair killed their chances just sad people who want to complain about crap on the internet and blame everything on some cosmetic 'flaw'?

Let's say he's very mature for his age, wants the same things in a relationship as you do, and may even be everything you're looking for in a guy -- the only drawback being the age gap (not necessarily 10+ years apart, it could also only be a couple years). Would you still give him a chance, or would you be too turned off by his age?

I am not posting this in an attempt to hook up with any of you nor try to "get some", or even to make myself look like a prize, but I'm posting this out of both curiosity and a need to vent: I am very mature for my age. I know what I want to do with my life (I've not only planned it out but I'm already working on achieving my goals). I take life very seriously and do not take anything for granted. I also know what I want in a relationship, which is a long term relationship with a girl whom I am compatible with, and with the intentions of ending it in marriage. I do not date for "fun" nor out of desperation, I don't play that fuckboy shit.

I'll try not to drag this on for too long but basically the vast majority of the girls my age that I've encountered (not necessarily dated) are spoiled, immature, indecisive, like to play games, and do not know what they want. Although not all older women are more mature than girls my age, I know that as a whole they are less likely to play the same childish bullshit as 16-18 year old girls. I also know that a lot of guys my age are self-absorbed douchebag assholes who like to act like their big shit, and many older women would not want to deal with that. I posted this because I want to know if you ladies would give a younger guy like me (not me specifically, just younger mature guys in general) a chance because I do not want to have to be stuck with idiot girls.

Just to clarify something: I'm not saying that all young girls are stupid, only that the majority of the ones that I have personally encountered are like how I described, and I do not want to keep wasting my time with girls like them.

A quarter of the new generation is estimated to NEVER get married. Most of these are men. Marriage has a 50% success rate only and the repercussions of divorce are the equivalent of lifelong disaster. Wives are no longer respectful and society no longer expects them to be either. YOU have to obey your wife, not the other way around.

The shit usually begins a few months into a relationship and after a point becomes unbearable. Sometimes it starts within a week or 2.

So is it FINALLY time to live the dream of moving from girl to girl without fear of being condemned for it? And FINALLY focus on our other goals/hobbies like sports, video games, music, business, science, drinking, hanging out with mates, cars or whatever it is that we love...

without having to go home to someone who bitches at us for not spending enough time with her and shaming us for whatever reason? Every married man tells you the worst decision of his life was saying I DO but we're the first free generation so we don't have to do it :D