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Hey, if my question didn't make since I'll try to clarify a bit. As much as I myself am not a firm believer in the place formally known as the friend zone. I know people who do believe in it an as a result, experienced the pain of rejection because of it. Though, as I've learned some of those who've gone through it have become a bit bitter because of it. These people who I'm referring to are likely to take their anger out in passive aggressive ways.

For example one might say, "It's always the nice guys who get overlooked for the jerk who'll never love her. Oh well, she'll feel the same pain soon when he dumps her for another hot girl." There are many reasons why this statement is uncalled for, but I'll let you figure out why on your own. The point is, the individuals who make these comments or have these complaints are usually men. Now I'm not saying all men, so please don't beat me up to badly. Yet, they seem to be the most upset about the friend zone. Some will even band together in order to make themselves feel better by making funny quotes, memes, or just talking trash about the person they once liked.

Though, nothing makes bitter friend zoned guys stand together more than a female who claims to have experienced the friend zone. In the forum world of the friend zone any girl who utters the words, "I was put into the friend zone." Will suffer at the hands of an already toxic community. Now I wouldn't say it if I hadn't seen it happen in many forums myself. These girls get ripped to shreds if they claim the friend zone. They'll be cussed out, demonized, and their pain will be turned into an absolute joke. Because in the minds of these self proclaimed nice guys, females cannot be friend zoned even though anyone can be rejected. Let's be honest a guy labeling a girl as bro or dude is the same as a girl calling a guy her brother or good friend.

What do you think?
P. S. I think the friend zone is absolutely pointless.

There's a lot of misconceptions about when a girl asks for more and the guy either can't give any more cause he thinks he has given her his best or he's just lazy and effortless. Sometimes, those girls are really spoiled and unappreciative and thats why other girls tend to feel a little embarrassed wen they confront their man about how he could've done something a little better because they don't want to come off as one of those unappreciative girls.

It's really hard especially w my boyfriend, to distinguish if he does value me or not. there's that saying "its not about having time, its about making time." He gave me a gift card for my bday and I was disappointed evn though he spent the weekend w me. I expected something more special but it made me feel like I'm not worth more than a gift card. But him spending my bday weekend w me meant he made time for me so does that make up for the gift card? When it comes to money, sometimes he makes me feel guilty if he paid for us in a passive-aggressive way and I'm just like you should WANT to spend money on me not like a million bucks but not mind spending on me instead of feeling bad for it.

So guys, what is the best way a guy can show how much he values her? I. E, if a guy makes time for you but doesn't give you the materialistic things, it still shows he values you. so in this case, time is the number one way a guy can show he values her.