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I was just curious about what kind of lifestyle wrt relationship (s) you'd most want to have over the course of your life. I've thought of 5 options.

1. +20 years. A lifelong monogamous relationship (to the right person obviously). This does not necessarily mean marriage or kids (though it can if you want it to). The initial excitement won't be there after 20 years obviously and you will have arguments that you will have to get past. But this provides the most amount of support and emotional connection to each other. If you get sick or injured, the other will stay with you (and you will have to do the same). You will be committed to making it work as will the other person. Both of you will want to make the other happy.

2. 5-15 years. You will have a very long term relationship but will separate after a while. I can only imagine people picking this because it'll allow them to raise kids and then leave each other for something else. This seems a weird option but it does happen a lot so I included it.

3. 6 mnths-2 years. Serial monogamy. You have relationships for that emotional high of love/infatuation. It won't be any kind of life partner though. If you move/become pregnant/have an accident, the other person won't stay with you. You will break up when serious issues arise or when the magic fades.

4. <2 months. Purely sex. No emotional connection or long term commitment/support. You get lots of sexual partners but no serious relationships and you will have to chase/seduce every partner. If you lose money or become less attractive, the others won't stick around. You get excitement and freedom but less stability.

5. No relationship at all. (There'll be a few who'll pick this).

Tl;dr: if you had to choose, what lifestyle would you most want to have wrt relationships. The more short term it is, the more excitement but less stability. The more long term it is, the more stability and support but your options will be restricted a little more.

I feel like I haven't had good luck in life in the sex department because I've had more Oral Sex than Intercourse in my past relationships before my wife. I've been with my wife for 10+ years and we've had an amazing sexual relationship.

But why I am disappointed is that she has had only one sex partner before me and she went all the way only once. So that means she's went all the way with two people and I've only went all the way with 1 person.

I feel unluckier than most guys because I've only had intercourse with only one person but had Oral sex with 8 girls before her. If I had intercourse with just one more person to even the score then I wouldn't feel so bad about myself.

I'm thinking about cheating on my wife because women are starting to find me attractive (I'm a late bloomer), I want to even the score with her, and I want to see what intercourse feels like with another girl.

Does intercourse really feel that much different with another girl?

Is cheating worth it?