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Been in the dating scene for the past 7-8 years, like every guy out there at first i thought that love, compassion and attention will get you the girl, since i saw some guys making it work... turns out these guys either seriously lucked out out or had other attractive qualities "money" .

In reality the dating scene was a little more complicated than showing love and attention to get women, i once ignored a girl whom i had feelings for and for some reason she decided to not pursue anything with me any further, and i was surprised when she came to me a while later asking why do i avoid her and showing far more interest in me than before... my first ex i almost showed no interest in and never considered dating or flirting with her but after a few text messages (she messaged me) we ended up going on a date and dating for a while, my now ex acted weird and distant at first, so i ignored her, she started pursuing me harder and finally i told her i have no interest in girl who acts like she does (she is hot by the way ) ... the result? dated for 3 months, she probably even left her boyfriend to date me.

between these two gfs i met plenty of women be it at college or out of college, and what i noticed was that showing any kind of attention in women almost always led to them losing interest in me, when i acted distant and made no effort i had compliments and interest from all kinds of girls and they werent shy about showing it, showing little to no interest in women has helped me a lot and i still can't figure out why is it like that?

So there's this girl that I know from work. I have been joking and maybe flirting with her. I am interested in her, however I'm shy, socially awkward, insecure, and have social anxiety. Plus I have a bad past with experiences of asking girls out or a bad end with my ex. So it's kinda hard for me to be comfortable. So, I was wondering if it would be seen as cute and sweet to send her messages anonymously. I've seen that she has a Facebook; so I was considering making an account, than under the account be named your secret admirer. Than I'd only add her and send her compliments and cute stuff. I want to be more comfortable to flirt with her and compliment her. However, j don't want to screw things up or get called into the manager's office