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Met a guy at work about 3 months ago (Blake). we became fast friends The attraction was there soon after Next week he invited me over to watch his favorite show, we had some drinks, cuddled & fell asleep
We’re both straightforward people & extremely comfortable talking about anything Once we stayed up talking all night about ourselves that ended with us kissing
We both expressed how we’ve been hurt in the past & don’t want relationships Few days later, he got tipsy & called me over He was upset & told me how he thought I would eventually hurt him I set him straight & we fell asleep
We got closer, jokes & flirting of us sleeping together began I’m 25 and virgin; came to realize long ago that life isn’t fairytale but knew I wanted to lose it with someone I cared deeply for & cared as much for me. Blake was that person. I brought it up to him. He asked why him. I told him I liked him pointing out our mutual attraction & us being friends already. He didn’t text me for a few days but acted normal at work, but was more touchy. So I figured, he’s thinking hard about it.
he gave his answer, yes. I went to his house nervous but determined. He was outside sitting & told me to join him. He came straight out & said he was worried how I would be after & if I was sure I didn’t want to wait for someone else. I reiterated that neither one of us wanted a relationship. Long story short. We went for it. He took care of me. No fairytale but no horror story either.
Everything after that changed. We’re touching & flirting with each other all day everyday at work, over text & after work. He began to get protective (especially around our other male coworker), holding my hand, calling me babe. We slept together a few more times. Each time more emotional. He got drunk another night & told me “I’m friend zoned, you friend zoned me”.
Truth, I like him & open to a relationship with him. But I tend to believe people when they say something, respect their decisions. So lay it out to him or not?

i reconnected w this guy i used to talk to & went on two dates with. its been 6 months since i’ve seen him. we went to the beach the other day i acted a little distant/not interested but he remembered everything about me acted like he really likes me been texting me since &tonight asked if i had a boyfriend & then asked what i was looking for. he said “i feel like your looking for a boyfriend go have some fun and settle down later thats what i’m feeling right now” (did he mean he thinks im feeling that way or he is just trying to have fun) then i say I don't know i’m not but i’m not sure he replied what were u looking for from me last time i can never make up my mind & i said i can’t make up my mind either i can't even explain its just a lot of pressure he replied sheesh i was just asking what you were looking for so i explained i don’t hookup with people i want a boyfriend but not a serious boyfriend he replied “lol you lost” & then said i’m not trying to date a girl but i don’t hookup w strangers so then i said well i’m not being friends w benefits if thats what your initiating he replied friends with benefits aren’t a real thing that works but i get what u mean we can be friends so i replied okay & he was like is that cool with you or what were you thinking i said what is friends not good enough? u wanna be besties or something i don’t get it why do you care what do you want & he said i was just seeing what you want some girls wanna date others or just fuck i wanted to see what was up not trying to be rude i said well to be straightforward i want a boyfriend you can’t change my mind about that he said i know u want a boyfriend then i said so don’t try to hookup with me & he was like how would i try to hookup with you it either happens or it doesn’t. is he beating around the bush he wants a relationship w me or is he just dtf? he said he doesn’t do hookups but isn’t a hookup just having sex one night? does he think by casual boyfriend i meant dating multiple guys?

i reconnected w this guy i used to talk to & went on two dates with. its been 6 months since i’ve seen him. we went to the beach the other day i acted a little distant & not interested but he remembered everything about me acted like he really likes me been texting me since & tonight asked if i had a boyfriend & then asked what i was looking for. he said “i feel like your looking for a boyfriend go have some fun and settle down later thats what i’m feeling right now” (did he mean he thinks im feeling that way or he is just trying to have fun) then i say I don't know i’m not but i’m not sure he replied what were u looking for from me last time i can never make up my mind & i said i can’t make up my mind either i can't even explain its just a lot of pressure he replied sheesh i was just asking what you were looking for so i explained i don’t hookup with people i want a boyfriend but not a serious boyfriend he replied “lol you lost” & then said i’m not trying to date a girl but i don’t hookup w strangers so then i said well i’m not being friends w benefits if thats what your initiating he replied friends with benefits aren’t a real thing that works but i get what u mean we can be friends so i replied okay & he was like is that cool with you or what were you thinking i said what is friends not good enough? u wanna be besties or something (jokingly) i said i don’t get it why do you care what do you want & he said i was just seeing what you want some girls wanna date others or just fuck i wanted to see what was up not trying to be rude i said well to be straightforward i want a boyfriend you can’t change my mind about that he said i know u want a boyfriend then i said so don’t try to hookup with me & he was like how would i try to hookup with you it either happens or it doesn’t. is he beating around the bush he wants a relationship with me or is he just dtf? he said he doesn’t do hookups but isn’t a hookup just having sex one night? does he think by casual boyfriend i meant dating multiple guys?