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Search Results: taking own advice
Am I his security blanket?
Just wondering after an 8 year relationship could I just be the "security blanket" or it was all for the sex? I fell in love with this guy but he has cheated on me multiple times. 4 months ago I called it quits because he...
Anonymous
(36-45) How To Be The Go-To Person
The next time the person you regularly ask relationship advice from gives you bad news, or tells you something you didn't want to hear, buy them a drink. Everyone has one, the relationship guru. It's your best friend,...
AlyssMaddigan
Xper 5 Age: 38 He did a complete 180 on me and I flipped...
So we are both 29 dated just about a year. We had an amazing weekend with his family and my kids across state. After that he became busy at work. Two days ago he said he seen a future with me and last night he called to...
confused5
Xper 5 Age: 46 Despite an amazing relationship, she ended things. Now I know she's moving to NYC. HELP!
My girlfriend of a year was recently won a writing fellowship on the east coast. When she came back from her two weeks, we had an intensely wonderful reunion. They next day, she ends it. I was shocked, and couldn't...
Anonymous
(36-45) I Want Him To Myself! How Do I Get Him To Leave Her?
From my facebook mail folder Carrie: I messaged you before about this guy. And I realize you’re busy, but I really need help understanding this. He’s been dating this girl for almost 6 years. He started cheating on...
mikethemasterdater
Xper 6 Age: 53 What's the one piece of advice you could give to the younger generation?
I would have to say "Hear or read both sides, weigh the pro's and con's, before taking a stance on anything." College is a perfect example of this. Groups and Organizations basically bombard college students with all...
He breaks up with me but still calls and texts....a lot
We are both almost 30 and he broke with me because "i gave him no other choice". Meaning I said to him I would rather not see him at all than not knowing when I will be able to see him. Although I apologized for saying...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) What is going on with my ex boyfriend?
First things first, a brief history: We were together for 4 years. I moved across the country and lived with him for 10 months. We lived with a room mate that neither of us got along with and it really put stress on the...
Anonymous
(36-45) Should I give her a second chance?
My girlfriend and I were dating for almost three months before she broke up with me. She was struggling with whether or not she should move back to Georgia and it was stressing both of us out so she felt that we needed a...
youknowbob23
Xper 5 Age: 41 Are You Responsible For Having A Crappy Partner?
The first time I was exposed to the concept of complete responsibility was through Brian Tracy, an amazing business/self improvement speaker. In a nutshell, Brian would corner the listener and explain, “you are...
mikethemasterdater
Xper 6 Age: 53 I'm meeting my ex this week, give me some advice?
I'll try to keep this as short as possible, but there's a lot to say. I'm meeting my ex for the first time since we split up two months ago. I'm really looking for some advice on how to act around him. I know I should be...
Anonymous
(36-45) One For The Record
I recently had to write a paper for class that consisted of an interview amongst a married person. And there's so many posts of breaking-up and heartbreak that I wanted to share something positive. This is an interview of...
The-Nash
Explorer Age: 42 Are guys threatened by strong/smart girls?
There is this guy I hang around who really prides himself on his scholastic and work achievements and lately I find when we hang out all he does is look for reassurance from me about his accomplishments and never asks me...
poopie
Xper 3 Age: 47 GUYS: Advice Anyone? Internet-Persona Safety: Where Do You Go From Here?
I realize it to be horribly cliche to fall for someone online. To me, it had always seemed immature, and lazy, and it had always seemed to be the insecure whom have been prone to such a thing... Now, I can't say whether...
ally_lucie
Xper 5 Age: 34 Break Ups For Single Moms
I am writing this to try to help single moms , such as myself, get over a break-up. I have learned ways to get over a break-up without involving the children in the pain that you are feeling, especially if you are with...
catt17
Xper 5 Age: 58 Comfort zones, commitment issues to boot
Hi, I've been dating this gal for about a two months and we've started having a physical relationship last week. It's my first time with that and not hers. I warned her that emotionally, expect some stuff to change and...
Anonymous
(36-45) Has anyone ever pierced their own ears before?
I pierced a second cartilage under my first one on one side, and then one sort of in between my cartilage and lobe on the other side. I already have doubles and a cartilage (aforementioned). I pierced them around noon,...
beddafigghia
Xper 2 Age: 34 Taking it to the next level...
Alright, so over the weekend I spent some time with a good "girl" friend of mine that I've known for a while and had feelings for. So I asked her out, she said yes and was pretty shocked and surprised after it all. So I...
Blake26
Xper 4 Age: 34 How to realize when you can't help someone...
I was dating this guy for two years. We always did the break up thing and got back together. He was always the one innitiating it, but this time I made it final. He still acts like it was his decision, and I'm just tired...
WhatTheHeck
Xper 5 Age: 41 Too soon for intimacy/is he just out 4 sex/have I scared him off?
On the first date with a guy that asked me to dinner, our date didn't end until the next day. To be more exact, our date started at around 9pm. We went to dinner, and the rest of the evening, stayed up talking all night...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) 