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So me and this guy are friends and part of the same friend group. But our friendship started complicated because when we first really started talking we were on a weekend trip and there was drinking involved and basically drunk Kenya initiated it but for the whole weekend long we cuddled and made out and basically we're together. As time past we became good friends and every once and a while he's bring up that weekend and say how fun it was and how great of a time it was. And bring up little details like our seven minutes and heaven. Now when that happened it was January nothing really happened again till July when we were having a bonfire at my friends house. He was super flirty all night and he tolde to come sit beside him. He roasted a marshmallow for me , put his hat on my head , offered me his sweater the whole shebang. He also complained that I didn't text him enough. When he never bothered to text me once first... Longer through the night my friends dared us to kiss and we did and it was great. But the next day again seemed like we were back to the start. However after this we started texting quit regularly for a while. Then came to weeks ago when I was up in the city where he goes to school with my friend. We were at a bar about 20 minutes from his school. There's was some creep hitting on me all night and would but his arm around me and stuff. So I jokingly texted him and asked for help. He asked what was wrong I told him and he asked where I was and what the address wass. my friend told him as I had been drinking and half an hour later he actually showed up! And helped me get away from the guy. We ended up walking back into town and instead of going back to his dorm he ended up coming back with is. We ended up sharing a bed and we cuddled and held hands, we didn't kiss but he rubbed my back and intertwined our legs and cute shit. The problem is we never talk about feelings EVER and when my friend asked his best friend I'd he like me he said he didn't know because he never talked to him about feelings but he did know that the boy had said he liked getting affection from me... So what does that mean? Is he using me or is there a chance he's to shy to admit anything?

Me and this coworker have been talking for about yr now his a manager in another dept we started of talking and hit it off we did flirt few times and sometimes I popped in his office to say hi & he always welcomed me, well I asked him for drinks looong time ago and he agreed and we exchanged # he didn't call me back and I let it go, then months after we started to talk ago and kinda but more casual when I switched dept to building next door we would occasionally stop by and sag hi. Fast work ward 5 months later he gave me ride home few times and since I live closer to him now he asked if I'm around his area to call him. Well I waited another month and finally called him we meet at nice bar and had few drinks had good conversation and fun time we both ended up having few more & then he started to put moves running his hand on lower leg while we talked if waiting at bad he would put his hand on my back and then we went to sit down we faces each other and we would just rub my legs and stuff hold my hand and when I stood up he grab me and gave me gentle kiss on neck we ended up pretty tips and he asked what I want to do go to another bar walk around go chill so in said go chill it was 2am we got together around 7pm I was tired so we walked to his place and he gave me an amazing kiss on elevator and we ended up hooking up and he kept saying it was amazing we feel asleep and I had to leave so he walked me to my car and gave me few more kisses and nice hug. Since I've liked him for while and we had good time I said we should go out again and he totally agreed. I waited few days and called him to go out again he had plans with family but said he wants to see me before I have to back to work from vacation. I'm kinda stuck in middle I really like him and we had good time he doesn't seem like type if guy who only hookes up but I've been wrong before about guys. What can I do know to keep him but same time not to scare him away. I don't think he had relationship in wh