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I was speaking with my mother about my bad luck with dating apps. I take my perpetually single status personal because regardless of how I’ve attempted to improve myself, I’m always single. I’ve lost weight and try to take care of how I look.

I told my mother it was due to bad luck and she says it’s not. She says regardless of how she looks, which is chubby, she says she would be able to find a man if she was single on a dating app. She says it’s because she is willing to put herself out there and meet guys.

She states that that there is nothing wrong with the way I look and maybe I’m the issue because I don’t love myself and keep my guard up. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong but guys don’t like me. I only get attention from guys I don’t want and learned to realize my dating status is out of my control and not to be too hard on myself because these men are the problem not me.

Are some people always taken typically because they’re more appealing and people that are always single are probably not desirable?