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DEAR AMY: My husband and I are aware that our daughter-in-law has been cheating on our son for over a year.

The person she is cheating with is also a "friend" of our son. We are afraid to say anything because we have no hardcore proof, such as photographs or tapes.

Our son is very trusting and there is no way he will believe us without such proof.

If we tell him, the end result will be that we won't be permitted to see our grandchildren, and perhaps our son as well.

We are devastated. The level of lies and deceit is astounding.

I am trying just to look the other way, but this is becoming more and more difficult.

Can you give us advice to help us deal with this?

My cousin's husband (31 years old) had been flirting with me, saying things like 'I miss you', 'I love you, darling', 'I have so much attachment with you'... So, I had blocked him but he somehow got my number and asked me the reason behind blocking.
I: I had blocked you because you were flirting with me and I didn't want to make you cheat on your wife.
He: You are right. But I won't cheat on her. She knows me very well. You would die to love me, you would die to get f***ed by me. You won't find anyone like me. By the way, you shouldn't tell her that I talk to you.
Me: Oh, you are scared huh?
He: I am not. She would doubt on me.
Me: Of course, she has a right to know that her husband can be unfaithful to her. Flirting with someone else while being in a relationship or marriage is cheating. You don't know?
He: Having sex is cheating, everything else has no value. Think broad, you won't be happy in your marriage. You have grown up in a conservative family, that's why your mentality is like this.
Me: I would be happy in staying extremely loyal to him, my guy, to be honest!!
He: U would, but he wouldn't be happy with you. All people have done everything before marriage now a days. I have done everything before marriage.
Me: Not all people, and cheating is cheating in every format!
He: Whatever you say. I was angry on you because you weren't talking to me... Anyway, no worries. Going to bed, good nighty darling! 😉

I don't think he would think this broad if his wife was flirting around behind his back. I will certainly tell my cousin about this.