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You are a beautiful girl and you know this, not because you're conceited, but because you are reminded by others often, perhaps even approached by a lot of guys. If this happens to you a lot than answer the following.

Do you get sick of guys asking you out in public because so many scumbags, perverts , creeps, or aggressive men have made it to where you already built to say no, hurting every guys chances of getting your number. In other words, are chances low for a guy to succeed on some level because too many bad experiences made the idea of approaching girls, not ideal anymore and results in not even wanting to be asked out, in general? Or is it still okay to try? Would you rather be asked I'm person in public, or in your social media inbox? Neither?

If you do not mind being approached, obviously in an appropriate way what is the best way to do it?

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I created this approach to test on the field:

"the low risk low reward"

Which is basically the following steps 1. Approaching someone out of their league 2. confessing attraction 3. Immediately admitting he knows his chances are slim to none 4. Explaining his goal: which is not exactly to acquire your phone number or Ig but to learn and cushion the rejection, the attempt was experimental, to gain experience, tips for future attempts with other women.
The guy who approaches believes if he could survive, gain experience, and be able say friends he legitimately asked the hottest girl out, the attempt would be a success just from the Knowledge and experience alone
5. Wait for response (saying all that shit before she can say no.) this approach was formally called " the Shoot yourself in the foot "

before answering, would this nullify the confidence level that women are drawn to? or would you respect his attempt in trying to approach women in kind fashion and wish him luck, is it weird to bein friend, non romantic

How do I ask a girl out who is really attractive and be able to continue?

So I went out with this girl a few times, and things went well on our first few dates. She wasn't exactly the person I was looking for but I really liked her.
She seemed to really like me because she tried to be her best self around me and wouldn't smoke or do anything before or during our date because I didn't like the smell.
After a few months, we went out a third time and she was super excited to get together again, even asking to go to where we first met, then she explained she made a lot of bad choices during that month. She got into two bad relationships and got into drugs and had to go to the hospital. But she got a new job and moved back home. We had a good time, but she said she really wanted to focus on herself and get better, and didn't want to rush in a relationship, but was open to date and stuff until then.
We went to have sex, and she gave me a hard time because she had sex on the regular before we met, and I hadn't had it in 5 years. During which she just kept talking about her old partners and was just psyching me out and after a few minutes I couldn't maintain an errection and she seemed disappointed and I was extremely disappointed with myself. She spent the rest of the time in her phone, but told me as I drove her home I started good and she wasn't gonna hold it against me and we'd get together the next day and she gave me a kiss.
She rescheduled our plans a few times before saying she couldn't keep doing things with me, that she was gonna focus on getting sober and she's had a hard time with that and she hurts people when she's tried in the past. She said I'm a great guy and she wanted things to work. But she said she had a lot of issues to get through, and I tried to convince her I wanted to be there for her and after a little back and forth she blocked me.
I don't understand why? I said I wanted to be there for her