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so my parents' marriage is pretty shaky and im 16. they have been fighting since i was born (?). and my father has had an affair around thrice. my mom had a boyfriend once. they fight ALMOST everyday and u can hear screamings shoutings doors slamming every day. i have a sister who is 11. the only reason my mom is still in this marriage is because of my sister and i (she told us). but sometimes i feel that they are better off divorced because it'll do my sister and i better. a home where there are fightings everyday isn't a conducive environment to grow up in. when they fight it is always scary. and i can see that my mom is really unhappy in this marriage - she is always crying. what are your takes?

Some of the things I encountered with my first boyfriend were:

Drinks almost everyday. Says it's his outlet
- Had a DUI and didn't have a license but he recently got it back.
- Plays computer games a lot
- Lives with parents still
- Drives a Subaru
- Has temper issues
- Told me frequently when drunk he wants me to be his baby mama.
- Doesn't drive to your home because it's 30 minutes away/too far
- Doesn't plan dates
- Frequently has sex in his room in his parents home
- Loves partying, clubs and hanging out with friends
- Never puts you on social media but puts other girls/friends

So what are yours?

by the way, is it petty to get mad over social media? Most of our fighting dealt with that. I always wondered why he didn't put me on social media when he said he loves me so much, but puts other people and other "girls" as well. I asked him about it and he said he only puts it up if he knows it's a forsure thing. Which puzzles me...