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Not everyone takes the same approach after a break up, particularly a painful one. Some people hang on to their ex's belongings in the hope of a reconsile or as an excuse to talk to the ex, others give it back straight away and some keep it forever as a trophy.

Okay, so if the break up is reasonably pleasant I give them their things straight away so there's nothing lingering and no reason to talk or see eachother.



However, when I've been cheated on, dumped for rubbish reasons or the guy has just been a down right idiot then I burn it. Me and my friends have a bonfire, chuck the stuff on and high five and sing whilst we toast marshmellows on the flames fuelled by our ex's smouldering belongings.



Any half decent bits I sell on eBay. Ex's will ask me months.. or even years later for their stuff and I never dignify them with an answer.



I keep special notes, letters and sometimes photos, I put them in a box, I don't look at them but I keep them so it's there if I do want to reminisce. I also keep them to show my daughter when she's older as the men involved all played a part in my life, good or bad and I'd like her to know about my life growing up.

So what's your protocol for the ex's belongings?