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So my boyfriend was playing a video game and I asked him to use his insta because mine wasn’t working well (not to self he doesn’t use social media like that so he doesn’t have the insta app so he uses it on the internet) anyways he said no when I asked saying that he would have to log in etc so while he was playing the game I went on and I saw that he looked up his ex girlfriend I asked y and he said out of curiosity and tbh I don't know if this is normal to look up ur ex etc because I don’t so when I said that I freaked out because he said “I looked out of curiosity to see if she’s dead or alive I don’t hate the girl” tbh I just wanna know if I’m being over dramatic or I have a right to be mad. Also we met in October 2020 and he came from gorgia to NEW YORK we met at work and apparently her birthday is New Years, his sister is friends with her so back den he lied and said she was in the car with his sister when he called so out of respect he wished her happy birthday but 2 days ago I found out that he actually called her and wished her happy birthday because he said he promised before he left gorgia that he will call her on her birthday He also went along and said that she was his best friend. I just wanna know how I should feel cause it’s 2022 now and we still together. Am I being over dramatic or I just be mad.

That's what happened with my ex boyfriend. My mother hated him for the longest and yes she was right. When I dumped and blocked him, she unleashed her hatred on him and told him everything she thought about him. She was happy about no longer pretending to be nice for my sake anymore.

She likes my new boyfriend and finally I can see her genuine expression of happiness. She isn't just doing it for my sake. She sees him as part of the family.

Another example: My cousin's parents hate the guy and they're faking it big time. Her boyfriend is acting similar to my ex boyfriend; he's another one of those no good for nothing user that comes for sex and wants to get all the benefit of living together without any real commitment... wasting her time. The parents aren't saying anything bad about him when she's around but in private, they say the truth.

Overall... once your parents hate your partner, isn't that their permanent views? A genuine, sincere 180 turn is unlikely. The stories about warming up to your partner and keeping the peace is just for the child's sake... nothing else. It doesn't changes anything that they still hate the person.