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It's just unattractive in the way this term is used. Who wants to be in a relationship with someone who just doesn't need them in the slightest? My girl went to college and makes damn good money but she doesn't have this masculine aura around her acting like she doesn't need no man. It's not a matter of superior or inferior but just a matter of recognizing that men and women are different. Nothing wrong with that. Our genitalia is not the only thing that separate us from one another. Biology says otherwise. Hormones and our brains and a lot of other things. Considering that we're different, we both offer different things to each other in the relationship.

I depend on my girl to help me through stuff that I'm going through sometimes and she does the same. Relationships shouldn't be about being able to always independently exist without each other. I feel as if truly strong women don't need to use this term and I feel as if the only women who use this term actually feel inferior and are trying to prove a point. It's not that we're intimidated by you... that's not why we're not approaching you. That's delusion at it's finest. Do some self evaluation and think to yourself that maybe it's not that all these guys feel inferior to you because you're just so strong and independent but rather other circumstances. Maybe you're just not that attractive? Maybe you're annoying? Maybe you come across as an unpleasant person to be around?

I'm only 5'7" tall, and I'm skinny to boot- no matter how hard I try, I can't build up muscle mass or even put on any fat. Doesn't make a difference how much I eat, or how many protein shakes I make, I just can't put on weight; and whenever I work out, even if I'm pumping iron 3 hours every day, doing reps with weights which weigh more than twice as much as I do, and jogging 5km every evening, all that it ever does is just make my veins bulge out, all over my body, like some gross, freakish abomination.

And I never stop getting dissed, mocked, belittled and emasculated for it. I am NOT weak. Plenty of these thugs look at me and see me as an easy target, come after me trying to beat up on me, mug me, intimidate me. But I can handle myself- every fight I've ever had to fight, even three-on-one against guys twice my size, I've always won. Doesn't matter though- no-one gives a fuck about how strong or fast or athletic I am. I used to be comfortable with my body, happy with it. but now I absolutely hate it, because everyone else hates it and laughs at it, especially girls.

I'm fairly good looking in other aspects, and keep myself well. I still get approached by girls often enough- but because I'm so short and small and slim and 'have a young face', these girls are always either jailbait high-school thots, or pedobear MILF creepers who mistake me for a schoolboy. Will there ever be any girls out there, in the age range I'm looking for (16-29) who could ever find me attractive, as I am?

Is there anything I could do that I haven't already tried, bar steroid abuse or surgery, to become bigger and bulkier- to look like a 'real man' instead of the 'scrawny midget' I am now? Or should I just give up on ever finding someone who wants me for my body- is it hopeless to try and find a girl (over the age of 16) who'd find me attractive?