Honestly i joined a site recently for making friends, and i have been talking to this girl who is beautiful and seems to have a really good personality, we added each other on facebook and have been chatting for about a week (i've not met her yet but we're meeting soon) she has a really good job which is highly paid, intelligent (has degrees), is overall very popular has lots of friends and a really nice person, but she says to me she gets no attention from guys in general and if she does its just time wasters, but she is so pretty (i wouldn't put her on here as she wouldn't like it, she looks very similar to the girl i've used but prettier) but i was really surprised she gets no attention from guys on nights out, when i go on a night out i get attention from guys and i'm nothing compared to she is, it just baffled me, could it be because guys are intimidated by her?
Why would a woman who is really attractive, get very little attention from guys?
a woman with a lot of intelligence and who makes a lot of money actually has an aura that says you are not worthy to most guys. Generally it has more to do with the intelligence part not the money part. A smart woman generally finds dumb guys super annoying. Most guys know this so any guy that actually hits her up to talk is generally intelligent because they can keep up. If we compare it is kind of like if you were to have 2 pets a cow and a dog. the cow is dumb as shit. the dog by comparison is pretty much a genius lol. That would be my best guess. As the intelligent person I have seen this type of woman and I am definitely more at ease with them than with most other girls I am attracted too. Something about not having to worry if something I say will go past there head like the voyager 1 flying out of interstellar orbit is really nice. When we can have a conversation on something that is only a theory and both of us are on the same page and I come out of that conversation with my brain feeling like it got a work out... That is sooooo hot lol
I'm assuming she's in that picture? Let's be honest, she sure is hot. Well, hot, let's rather use the word attractive. I don't really know why she would get less attention from guys, but it might be due her popularity. Being extremely popular and being in the most powerful group of girls at school is something you can't go up against as a guy. I mean, you can't talk to her in person, everybody knows everything immediately. Almost the kind of feeling that she might be out of your league. She would've been out of mine, sadly. Beautiful, intelligent, popular, great student, a person who I would've fallen for. I did in the past. But I was rejected due to low popularity. Most likely, the group wasn't convinced enough. I was insecure too. The pressure of being in a group is something powerful. That might be the reason why she hasn't mush attention. I would've been certainly interested in her, but what can I do from here? Guess I'm just daydreaming again. (At 0:53 at night.)
OMG that always happens to me at school. My friends have told my that I'm really pretty and I've been asked if I have had a boyfriend or why I don't have a boyfriend. I am not bothered by this, its quite amusing actually. I have also been told that I am scary even though I haven't done anything to anyone. I do kickboxing but hardly anyone knows about that. A friend told me that before we were friends, she was intimidated and scared of me. Another one had told me (they know about my kickboxing) that even if I didn't know how to fight, I would still be scary. I have also witnessed the fear of me first hand. There are a group of guys in my class we fool around a lot ( play fighting, fake arguments etc.) and one of them is a 2nd class black belt. Our teacher re-arranged our seating plan and we were sat next to each other. As we were moving to our seats we looked at each other and for a split second he seemed like he was afraid. It's annoying when people react like that but mostly its upsetting that people are so quick to judge.
Because they feel like less of a man beside of her and they'd rather pick off one more in is league congrats that's learning how a man values you you're some kind of trophy to feel like a big man he's beside you and you're half hot as they maybe
He's shallow too I'm this same deal to many men it'd drive me nuts too myself
As that's pathetic and most fears me too wtf dude in a girl get over yourself XD it's weird then I realised the issues its about myself as the kind of woman I am
And more about how it's himself so I stopped caring and referred to self as I'd ranted do that than care about some dopey badtard staring at me he's seriously that kinda guy hubby? Nods I see ALL now ty
FYI seeking man's affection and needing to be empowered by his attention is for a babies refer to woman's faith and define it for yourself then men equals zero a man will be easier to find in your league
I've noticed that its easier when a girl is by themselves for a guy to interact with them compared to a girl being in the middle of a huge group of girls.
There is a very good chance that her looks are intimidating to most guys. And if she were to be hit on, it would take a guy that is very confident in himself and can assure himself that she will say "yes" to a dated etc.
Maybe she's the kind of girl who doesn't go anywhere without a pack. She's too busy being with her friends to put herself in situations where guys could easily hit on her. She's too busy, always talking, or just doesn't give off much of a personality when she's out.
Maybe she is really involved with her friends and guys never see her alone for a moment to talk? So she never needs to talk to new people too. Or she has guy friends and people assume one must be her bf? Or she probably does get a lot of attention but she dismisses everyone below a 9/10 as a time waster I. E. She's out of their league. Tbh this is probably the most likely as very pretty girls do tend to have an air of entitlement and also seem to be very rude. She's probably polite to you but maybe watch how she interacts with guys when you hang out?
Yes, so there is a category that you can put men in and it works every time, here goes, 1-10 of men will never ever approach a woman, especially if he finds them attractive, 11-78 of men won't initiate a conversation with a woman, but will keep one going, and may seem somewhat timid, 79-100 of men will run up to every girl they see, so in this category of men, the 79-100 are more than likely fuck boys, time wasters, and players, the middle faction are nice, well groomed, a little insecure, and overall then better of the bunch, the first faction, are very insecure, a little childish, clingy, and co-dependant, so roughly 20% of men will start a conversation and just want in your pants, the rest are more than likely looking for true love.
Honestly though, be careful she’s not a closet serial killer or something when you go. If no guys are taking interest in her it might be they didn’t live to tell the tale! 🤣
Generally if the looks and the smarts are there the only thing left is personality.
We seem to get on pretty well lol so her personality is decent from what I can tell and I mean I can see her Facebook account and all her friends on it and pictures and soo can’t say I’m too worried about that! But I’ll keep a eye out just incase 😂 if I disappear you’ll know why
There is such a thing as too pretty I guess... Men usually go for women that they think would be easy to score, so mostly women in their league... If she is as pretty as you say she is then it's probably because she's at a higher league than most guys...
I've been truned off by girls who were very pretty, but immature. I've passed on approaching girls because I thought they were out of my league. I've also haven't approached girls at times because I didn't think it was appropriate. So, who knows. She's also highly competent, from what you've said about her, so that may be intimidating as well.
I'm calling bullshit. A girl like her will have a ton of options, she most likely has very high standards, or she's no good at picking the right guys to talk to. If she means that she doesn't get approached when she's out on nights out, then either she doesn't look approachable because her body language is closed, maybe she has resting bitch face. Maybe she's always with a big group of girls and again doesn't look open to be approached. Guys won't come and approach a girl most of the time if she's with a bunch of girls facing inwards for example, they'll go for the girl who maybe seems kind of bored and is looking around.
I'd have to disagree with all three posts saying that guys are intimated, yes some guys are intimated but the truth is really attractive woman and really successful woman get hit on all the time.
If people are not hitting on her it's most likely to do with her body language. 55% of communication is done through body language alone. Not saying this is her fault she probably doesn't even realize that she is communicating to others with her body language that she is unapproachable. I would have her first look into how to have open and inviting body language then try some experiments with you and her out together and let her try to mimic how you look and act while your body posturing and movements.
When a man see a attractive woman he's first thoughts are. 1. Gold digger (if he have money) 2. He think that she have high choosing level 3. That she boyfriend for sure 4. A big chance for rejection , that's why they don't bother. 5. Problems
When u want some friend u need to come at thier level... forget how u looks and how much u r intelligent... search for common interest and things to share and enjoy... if a person failed to do so and waiting that someone come and ask then it's long wait cz usually people not persue others... that may be the reason.. being attractive can help in getting attention but being friendly is other thing... yes it is a risk to find out a right person but for that it need to be taken.. men are commonly seeing for time passing but such people can easily be pointed out..
Hmm. Well she does get attention from guys but like she said, they are a waste of time meaning they only approach her for a possibility of sex.
A girl can be attractive and intimidating at the same time, its just the approachable factor that gets in the way. Maybe its her body language and lack of eye contact that makes guys not want to approach her.
Its not what we can do, its what she can do, after all its her problem. If she likes a guy and wants him to approach then she has got to give the greenlight for the guy to make a move. Smile at him, making an eye contact, give subtle hints. A player will approach her regardless of what her body language says.
It could just be the way she carries herself. You seem more approachable maybe? She might give off a "vibe" that's off putting? There could be many reasons, and maybe nothing to do with her either. Every guy is different and has different perceptions. My advice for someone like her, is for her to do some approaching. Don't wait or expect guys to all the time.
Example just looking at this picture, my thoughts, there's no smile, she doesn't look like an overly friendly person. I'll probably get rejected right away.
Could be intimidating, but in all honesty, it is more likely that she doesn't live her life in a way that brings her in touch with commitment focused men. I don't know why this needs to said, but so many people seem to think that they are just going to run into Mr/Ms Perfect at bars and clubs. THAT"S NOT WHERE COMMITMENT ORIENTED PEOPLE SPEND THEIR TIME.
That is an excellent point! Or maybe nobody tries to ask her about anything involving a "relationship", because they just assuming she's already got someone special? Or maybe it's the price to pay for beauty. (Don't you dare start thinking YOU'RE not pretty)
They probably think that she is too good for them and that they don’t have any chance with her so why bother
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The girl in the picture looks very average tbh completely, also looks like she lacks personality character ( I know this is not her in the pic) I would never approach this type of girl unless she gives me a signal for some hook up or a ons
Maybe she isn't approachable. Maybe guys feel intimidated. When I see a beautiful woman who doesn't seem approachable, it is intimidating, guys don't like facing rejection. Nobody does for that matter. That's the only reason I can think of.
To add to this, I think narcissistic egomaniac's would be the only ones to approach a really pretty girl. Which is why the relationships she has had with men have been bad because these guys don't care about love, but rather just see her as a trophy and treat her as such.
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