Why would a woman who is really attractive, get very little attention from guys? (Page 2)

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Honestly i joined a site recently for making friends, and i have been talking to this girl who is beautiful and seems to have a really good personality, we added each other on facebook and have been chatting for about a week (i've not met her yet but we're meeting soon) she has a really good job which is highly paid, intelligent (has degrees), is overall very popular has lots of friends and a really nice person, but she says to me she gets no attention from guys in general and if she does its just time wasters, but she is so pretty (i wouldn't put her on here as she wouldn't like it, she looks very similar to the girl i've used but prettier) but i was really surprised she gets no attention from guys on nights out, when i go on a night out i get attention from guys and i'm nothing compared to she is, it just baffled me, could it be because guys are intimidated by her?

JãññyBõõ · Answer

It is possible that they are intimidated by her but it probably because guys are thinking too much and then do nothing

tryme813 · Answer

Most guys lack the confidence of thinking they can get an attractive woman also it depends on the woman personality, is she down to earth, do she thinks she's above everyone else, etc

system73554 · Answer

Yeah smarts are intimidating, and being vary pretty a lot of guys probably see her as our of their league.

Anonymous · Answer

She gets plenty of attention from guys, but she wasn't talking about the average Joes, she was talking about the Chads. You are baffled because you find the guys that give you attention either attractive, or see them as having value.

JohnFrost · Answer

Assume there out of her league. Someone can be beautifully and scary

LegateLanius · Answer

There are more than likely guys that are interested but not her type so she ignores them.

Kuraj · Answer

I don't believe in "intimidation".
Men probably just don't find her as attractive as you do, or she is getting approached just not by the kind of people she wants to get approached by, and therein comes the confirmation bias.

arrykancil · Answer

Honestly, some guys scared and think that they're below your level, and some guys think that you are a hot good looking b*tch that could be a golddigger, but the way i think, i would chat first and knowing about her attitude.

MeatPuppet · Answer

Probably because she's so attractive that she's intimidating.

Jackblue · Answer

probably they feel she already has a boyfriend or is out of their league

JSmuve · Answer

If she looks like the girl in the pic, then she looks super unimpressed and probably would immediately reject any guy that approaches her. Out of curiosity, what's the website?

MrFluff · Answer

Not true. she's either lying to you or she doesn't believe in herself. But i guess its a littlebit true that guys could be intimidated by her. Therefore she gets a lot of attention but on the side and she doesn't see it.

Lovvyyy · Answer

No. It's not about intimidation; I am younger, but in my experience if you are even just not completely ugly guys will storm you with attentions regardless of how you are inside.
Probably has a history of which you are unaware destroying other guys.

Shoenron · Answer

She is popular, she has friends, that means she does get attention. Just not the attention she'd like. Meaning she's either too picky or wants guys out of her league.

vvvcccssv · Answer

That is her view. She gets a lot of attention for sure from all kind of players and losers. And probably the kind she likes are shy and do not approach her.

NerdInDenial · Answer

Guys know where they stand and assume she'll just reject them.

memeqweenn · Answer

she might be a catfish

Anonymous · Answer

Are you talking about a virgin from Australia?  She unironically has very high standard.

Stephen5577 · Answer

Maybe she does get lots of attention but has really high standards, or is so far up her own backside that she just doesn't pay attention to decent men.

HUNGxAF · Answer

Bad reputation or if she's a bitch. But id still smash

peter66 · Answer

Some men don't like easy things ! They wanna earn it

harin_mehta · Answer

She must have got lot of attention... Guys couldn't stop watching her

wes777 · Answer

Yes they are. I have definitely shut down around very pretty girls

Anonymous · Answer

Here's a secret, guys go after women that are cute and they might have a chance with.

7asson · Answer

She has high-standards thats why. Not saying that its bad or anything, but that might be the case. Its hard for some guys to stay in thebsame level as she is

youwiththeface · Answer

It's not uncommon for overly attractive women to be pretty high maintenance and that does put more avg. guys off due to them looking like they're more work then they are worth. Not always the case but that is how some guys see it

NYCQuestions1976 · Answer

Can you give her my number? LOL

motownplayer2000 · Answer

You just have an off putting vibe... But it's not your problem, it's the guys problem for not giving you a chance...

Jbuff39 · Answer

Yes they are scared of her. Pitiful. At least the attention she will get will be mostly confident secure guys. Quality over quantity.

NoToriousROB · Answer

I call bullshit. She probably is standoffish to most guys and hangs out with girls on a night out inwards, which sends a signal to not fuck with her.

AlphaStyles · Answer

She wants attention I am wide open 😂 But wait she gets no attention from guys maybe her facial expression tells it all

Honglitha · Answer

Because guys are afraid to get closer to her since she's really attractive

Rick912 · Answer

The girl in the picture gives the impression that I am a hot bitch - don't even think about it - get lost a-hole.

Zephyr_blossom · Answer

Intimidation most likely

KMFDM · Answer

Maybe she is too attractive. Most of the men won't play a match out of their league.

Mrblueballs42 · Answer

Would love to talk with her.  Without talking her myself won't know. Some girls scare men away.

Aroso · Answer

Some people are really photogenic. That doesn't mean they look that good in real life

tredman · Answer

Attractiveness is more than physical. Attitude, attitude, etc. I have been turned off at the moment she opened her mouth and spoke before.

Markfish · Answer

They have sites to make friends now? If she has a lot of friends like you say, why is she on such a site? You guys in for some kind of lesbian hookup?

bakedgoods · Answer

If a woman is a 5 or higher i dont waste my time im like a 3 max so i stay in my lane and watch everyone else have fun

AskDoge · Answer

Because men are weak. Were supposed to be the straight forward ones but were not. If you're gorgeous we have no chance and we know that

Aaron-1992 · Answer

Maybe she didn't met the right person. There is nothing wrong with her. Don't force it too much.

Catmaster13 · Answer

Intimidated, don't want to look like a fool in front of her.

L0vinLife · Answer

Very much so. Especially shy guys. They feel like she would never give them a second thought or that her standards are much higher than them.

crazytaurus · Answer

Because looking at her they would think that there is no way she is single.

rokosmith · Answer

Because guys think she already have boyfriend so they don't try

hirendar · Answer

Because people think she is already in a relationship...

NG304 · Answer

Very attractive women tend to intimidate some guys.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe she has a really high standard.

Casus_Angelus · Answer

She belongs to lucifer

Tomblebee · Answer

Maybe they assume she already has a bf?

jdrrichmond · Answer

Maybe they assume she is taken.

Catholicgirl22 · Answer

Resting bitch face maybe

weaverman · Answer

I don't it wouldn't stpp me

Alice2398 · Answer

Probably intimidated

LightSoul2 · Answer

Maybe most guys think she's too good for them.

Anonymous · Answer

We know she wants it.. so, why give it to her?

CT_CD · Answer

She has RBF

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

Guys are intimidated by her

SoldierMane · Answer

Girl, I'll give you all the attention you need!

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