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I often experience B. I’ll regret not telling someone how I feel and then find out later that they were actually into me.

There was this new student. I never really tried to approach him because i didn't care to plus i wasn't initially attracted. But then we went on this field trip and i hung with him all day. Omg the feelings really started to boil. By the end of the year, I told the cousin of his cousin. Lol big mistake. Next school year, He passes me and says “I Know Something You Dont Know.”! Lol I immediately ran to my friend (the cousin of his cousin) bt she promised she didn't tell him. Lol Lies! One day i sit and talk with Him and he's like “I know you like me.” I was like “who told you, Liz?” And he goes, “yea but dont tell her i told you. so you used to like me huh?” Me freakin out inside, im like “USED TO.” Lmao then he's like “Wait why dont you like me anymore?” Haha i thought it was so cute that he was disappointed that i was possibly over him. Then he goes, “if i kiss you right now, would you start liking me again?” omg i was ecstatic but i turned him down. One, because he was just flirting with an enemy of mine IN MY FACE earlier that day, and Two, because we were in a class that contained me, my female enemy, 6 of my ex-crushes and this one quiet kid.

I’ve also experienced A where i told someone how i felt and ended up regretting it. Ling story short, he was my best friends brother. He flirted and she always told him “YALL ALWAYS SIDE WITH EACHOTHER BECAUSE y'all LIKE EACHOTHER.” And yea he denied it, but not in a mean way. More of a, possibly lying to himself way. Anyways, when i told her to tell him how i felt years later? it resulted in the end of our friendship. Smh.

As for C, I’ve only backed away when it was a best friend telling me his feelings. I mean, Im flattered but if he constantly tries to make me “want” him, then i run. I guess i can see now why I experienced option A with my friend guy.

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So I started dating my now ex boyfriend last December. I was invited over for Christmas & he also came to both of my families Christmas' as well. Things were great or so I thought. We took couples photos with his parents & his brothers & their ladies. He introduced me to nearly all of his friends within the month as well. Only about a month ago I met one if his best friends too. I once caught him sending an old interest of his inappropriate messages but we quickly got over that. And then a month after that he broke up with me, stating we both had issues to work out (example financially & such) I don't understand why he went to the lengths of announcing to his whole crew he loves the most that I'm his lady only to get rid of me a few months later. He at first didn't want an open relationship or to share me but the suddenly he was ok with it. Until I went to a movie with one of his friends AFTER we broke up. He was furious & it almost ended their friendship. Why? And then he decided after the breakup that he wanted us to be friends with benefits. And he still KISSED & HUGGED me every day. And called me babe & baby too. He had previously told me he saw a future for us but if I ever mentioned a future, he got freaked out. Please explain this someone if you can. Because I am trying my hardest to move on but I don't think I'll be able to without some kind of clarity.

I've only been talking to him for a couple days, we met online.
We have a lot in common
He has most of the things I was looking for in a guy.
He's younger than me
He said I was the only girl that made it pass hows it going.
He has this cute personality\calls me dork\butthead
He said he's very affectionate
He has been calling be cute a lot and about kissing each other
He said he is willing to go at my pace and all he wants is for me to be comfortable
He's an emotional\sensitive guy.
He has said that I'd make a good girlfriend
We already set up a date to meet in a couple weeks.
We ask each other questions and he says like a lot
We've got to know each other a bit.
We seem to agree on some things.
He talked about his ex a lot (I did ask one question about her) and then I asked him to not talk as much about his ex and he was understanding and said he will, which he has.