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Well, for the past year and a half, I have been using meetup. com to expand my social circle and as a means to also meet quality women. I am part of a lot of groups on meetup, and I have meet some interesting people so far. However, I have noticed a trend at these events:

-A lot of the meetup groups are dominated by men. Don't get me wrong, females still attend, but not as much as the men. And if females to attend, they are not very attractive (in my opinion)... and if attractive women do come to the meetup, they are often with 2-3 other friends and they relax together and talk to the other women.

-I have noticed that a lot of women signup for meetup events that are only for women. Sometimes... some of the meetup groups I am part of have women only events... and when I look at the turnout for those, a lot more women tend to go to those (especially the attractive ones) than the mixed gender meetups.

Adding onto this... back in my college days, when I used to go to the bars with my friends and attempt to "pickup" women, they would always tell me that they are not looking to get to know guys and are only out to hangout with their girlfriends and have a girls' night out.

So... that begs the question... ladies... when you go out, are you going out to meet men or hang out with your girlfriends and have a girls' night out?