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He works the night shift with her at Target. He barely started working there like 6-7 weeks ago. She asked him about 3-4 weeks ago if he can pick her up from her home the next day and if they can carpool together, since her car is being fixed and she has no one to give her a ride to work the next day. She also said that she would have to ride her bike to work the next day, if she doesn't get a ride. He made up an excuse about why he can't do it and she seemed ok with it but obviously she wasn't because the next day at work she talked to him a lot less compared to the previous times at work. It has been like 3-4 weeks till she asked him for the favor and she still is talking to him a lot less. My best friend told me the true reasons why he didn't give her a ride (He didn't tell her any of this, he made up an excuse about why he can't). One of the reasons is that he doesn't like for other people to be in the car with him when he is driving because if he gets in an accident and that person gets injured he would feel really guilty even though if the accident is not his fault. Another reason is because if he picks her up from her home he would have to wake up like 30-45 minutes earlier and he wakes up very early already to head to work since it is the night shift. She lives like 20 minutes away from the Target. He only lives like ten minutes away by street from the Target. A third main reason is because he is afraid that she will keep asking him a lot for rides in the future even though she said at the time she only wanted one ride. Ok this reason isn't a main reason for him but it is a reason. His car really sucks and everytime he takes it to work he risks it breaking down. Luckily nothing has happened, but he takes a risks each time. He takes a risk with his car for work, since it is only ten minutes away, and since he needs to work. He says he is wondering if she feels that since she trained him and helped him out when he barely started working that he should do a favor for her too.(We are not sure if she thinks he should do a favor for her, since she helped him a lot, we are just guessing about why she is upset).

a featured article I read here the other day inspired me to ask this question. but before I start I would like to apologize in advance for sounding too vulgar.

OK so as a guy who doesn't want to get involve in any serious relationship right now I kinda finding this "emotional connection" thing a major turn off. I mean this to me sounds like something that could lead to some sort of attachment later on after the sex. and as a human being it kinda sounds illogical to me that someone needs to feel an "emotional connection" with another human being in order for that individual to have sex with that person. let'snot forget that is proven millions of times that both our sex drives (men and women's) function the same exact way so to me this is more reason why I believe a woman could still have sex with a man just for finding him sexually appealing. I even met a lot of women who say that it is indeed unnecesary for women to feel this "emotional connection" in order to let their freaky side out. most of them even when on criticizing these women who say such a thing by calling them bullshitters, hypocrites, fakers, etc. lets not forget how there are a lot of women out there who would have sex for money and favors aka things that dont relate to "emotional connections."

anyways getting to the point i think this "emotional connection" bullshit is just a hoax women nowadays use in order to repress their wild side and not feel like a slut or any other type of guilt from it. but yea, i just want to know, do I have a right to see women who say such a thing as a red flag? or am i being too judgmental?

Pros VS Cons. Been dating just over a year... I'm 30 she's 21 yes its bad I know. I met her at work and we had a hustle sort of job and she could hustle up some sales, she was a hard worker, that's what attracted me to her though she used my dog to get my direct attention and pursued me and sold me on her. Now that were not working there anymore and I went back to school and she's working full-time job this next part has been the baseline of our relationship.

Pros; Sweet, Only girl to really make me laugh all the time, Love's my dog, caring, does my laundry

Cons; Tantrums, complains, cries, over emotional on all the smallest things, won't get off the couch once she gets home, Don't help clean the house at all, Doesn't cook, Act's like a child and I mean she acts like a child for a number of reasons; in trouble, avoiding something and when upset. It's hard to passionate with her due to the fact she's extremely ticklish, She doesn't like sex and doesn't like giving out any favors ;) There is more to list but I'm sure by now you get the point no need to drag on the list.

Yes, I know there are more cons to pros and I have been really thinking about our relationship and if it's worth the time. She been hinting the idea of me buying her a ring and she knows that I won't dare ask that question till years down the road. Nor has this been really a relationship but more of a one-way relationship and it's her's

I've been told to end it though the thought of ending it I know will just absolutely crush her and that scares me beyond belief, I don't see a future with her at all and once in a while she'll get a fire lite under her ass and do something that just pulls me back in. I get fascinated with her once she choose to proactive in us and it gets me every time. Ultimately I want more in a relationship than what it is now. As a bonus of t. m. i our sex life has been non-existent