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I've been talking to this guy for a about a month now. He's unlike any other guy I've talked to before and is very respectful and kind-hearted. I don't usually date because of how bad I've been treated in the past (which he knows about) but he treats me like a princess when we're together in person. We're both always so busy but he's even busier than I am so I hardly see him. I haven't seen him in over a week and he hardly texts me back anymore, now that he's further into his graduate studies. He said he was too busy to hang out a couple of days ago and said "how about tomorrow instead?" so I said sure. The next day I didn't hear from him at all, I was pretty upset about it but didn't want to come off too strong by telling him. He finally sent me a text later that night saying he was busy but didn't at all address blowing me off or apologize. As if it never happened. But just when I think he's lost interest he'll say or do something (online though..) that will throw me off again. When we started talking he was really communicative and asked me out a lot, but for over a week now I've been the only one really trying to initiate conversation or to get him to take a break to hangout. Not that I think it makes a difference but he's introduced me to his friends already who get along with me so well, and his family knows about me already. I give him a lot of space and even stayed silent all weekend thinking he'd message me to see what was up, but nope, not a single text or call. He is all about taking things slow and we've even discussed "where we stand" which is that we're just getting to know each other and going on dates but not in a relationship. When we had this talk he said he was so relieved that I didn't see us as a couple yet.. I think he may be scared of commitment. I can't help but to feel I'm over thinking this though because although his behavior & responsiveness has changed a lot, we still aren't really "in a relationship" just dating. What are your opinions?

we've just started seeing each other after months and months of not talking because before we both wanted different things. every time we've spent time together (3 times) so far have been great. very romantic, fun, great conversation, always making each other laugh, etc. the second time we hung out I decided it was ok for us to have sex, as the two of us having sex together is nothing new. the 3rd time I stayed over at his place after he bought me dinner. in the morning I guess I decided to just ask him when his plans were for the weekend before I left and he said he was really busy, so I just told him to call me and said my good byes and he gave me a big hug and kiss. he has told me he likes me and had been really happy that I've agreed to hang out again. however, it's been a week and I haven't heard from him. this isn't exactly out of the normal for him, we've had conversations before where I remember asking well I would really worry if you waited like two weeks to call and and he said no I'd never do that. but I still feel anxious, just because we just started seeing each other again (he's the one who initiated it too). I'm just wondering how into this it sounds like he is relationship wise? he doesn't have much real relationship experience since his only one was long term and long distance, but I don't want to sound needy by calling him up letting him know I need more time. I was to appear independent, with my own life, not needing him but wanting him in it none the less. how should I go about this? the last time we hung out he was very very happy to hear from me, but I don't want to be the one initiating it again. what should I do, why is he acting like this?