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Why would he want a long distance when he works 18 hours a day and why would he introduce the girl he never met to his mom on concall and say that I got our future wife. Why would he wanna talk to my mom. Why he loves me ( but we have never met)? Why I feel I'm loved too? He ignores my ( I'm the one he is in Long distance with someone living in NZ he went there as an international student and is staying there since 3 years and we are from same city originally but I'm still in my own country) texts and replies every two - five days since a week, saying he was too busy. He also told me that he is loyal to me and says me I love you over call and texts. And we once faught after a month of our relationship coz he said he don't see any future with me coz I don't wanna come and study in NZ and that he will not give me any job right away in NZ coz he lives on rent and I said fine you should break up with me. He said I'll find someone else and when I get one, I'll leave you. I was like no, break up with me right away. Be sure and confident. And he asked me if I want to break up with him? I said no why would I? He said no I don't want to break up and he apologized next day. Today it'll be three months and all is good. He bought another home and lives alone on rent and he said me that in 3 years or so he would be a resident of NZ. Would he call me to NZ? But what I fear is that will this relationship last? What's your opinion?

Met this guy on tinder. We have been texting for about 3 weeks. Not looking for a hookup, or anything of that matter (hence why I chose tinder lol). We scheduled to go tomorrow but I’m having second thoughts... hear me out before you assume I’m a flake. He has become very casual and subtle with his texting. At first it was large paragraphs and I felt an internet connection, now I don’t feel a thing. He doesn’t text me unless I initiate it, doesn’t ask me any questions about myself, Leaves me on read 80% of the time, busy all day... yet still texts over people (I can see his snap score). Is he just a shitty texter? We will be going to a nearby creek, swimming.
Listen, this will be my first date ever and I don’t know what to do. Please give me some advice, hopefully I gave you enough to work with. Thanks!

My guy friend sometimes takes between 24 and 48 hours to respond to a text but when he responds it’s always more the one word. Usually 2-3 sentences. And he keeps the cove going. Sometimes asks a question or at least say something I can reply to and he uses “haha” a lot!!

I should also add he’s a known bad texter.

This guy and I have been talking for 6 months and I asked him where our relationship was going. He messaged me back and said that he was busy at work and that he would message me later.. Well after about 3 days not hearing from him I blocked him because I felt like he was rejecting me.. Now, I miss him a lot and wondering if I should I reach out to let him know that I miss him and see if he feels the same?