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The problem is am short at 5 foot 6 (which is a major turn off to women), average looking an build. Plus with societys expectations in todays world its just too hard of a competetion unless your tall and goodllooking or average height with good looks or money etc etc, well I dont have to say you know the score. Women want too much that I just can't offer like money, looks and its exhausting that i just dont want to chase women anymore because its making me feel empty inside with all these rejections.

I look after my self by dressing smart, styling my hair, work out and have general confidence around them and most women like my sense of humour to make them laugh and enjoy my company but they just dont find me sexually attractive or appealing because i dont look like what a ideal man should look like in a womens eyes and I know this because of all the nice looking lads that are bigger than me just have to say hi or make eye contact to get their attention and their the lads that get approached. I have never been in a relationship before just only one night stands and at 22 have just learned to enjoy my own company to be fair. So deep down am not alone or anything... its just the people that make you feel alone which am seeing quite clearley right now.

All am saying is there's only so much I can do to make my self look better like how I dress, workout whatever and none of them seem to work the only solution I have is to focus on making more money to attract and yeah i know its horrible to say that but in this life some people have to make do with the cards their dealt with. Am not asking for your pity just the solution to my question because am lost on what to do on this scenario... like i said dont pity me because I have good friends, family that love me and finacially secure with qualifications so am not that bad, am just a very a unlucky man in some parts of my life which I can't control much over of.

I would appreciate your honesty and time

Thanks everyone

When I was younger, it wasn't as hard to find a date as it is today. It seems like they raised the bar in order to be accepted now. Back when I was maybe 13 or 14, I wasn't really dating at that age but I don't remember people needing to meet The criteria's they need to meet in today's world. you can't have gone to jail or any of that stuff if you want to be excepted by a decent person. Women and men both expect you to have gone to college, But back in the day they only expected you to have a job. I guess the stipulations are still the same as far as children go, men and women don't like entering relationships when you have children with someone else already...
Imagine a simpler time: A well-dressed single gentleman pulls up to the front of a single lady’s home in the early evening, steps out of his car, and approaches her front door. The two of them were introduced to one another by a mutual friend at a social function some weeks prior.

It is their first date.

As she steps outside, he offers an umbrella to shield her from rain showers, walks with her to the passenger side of the car, and opens the door for her. She notices the interior of the car is spotless. The pair takes a scenic route to a special destination: a reserved table at an elegant restaurant. Conversation flows naturally for a couple hours, with each beginning to learn about the background and interests of the other. After dessert, the gentleman pays for the meal and then drives the lady home. Accompanying her to her door, he thanks her with a warm smile, and departs. This may be repeated on a regular basis, and could eventually lead to courtship and marriage, as the two get to know one another through hours of conversation, spread over months. How much has dating changed in recent years? Over the decades in the Western world, traditional dating was gradually overtaken by the high school “going steady/boyfriend-girlfriend” approach.