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Search Results: approaching women in bars
What kind of eye contact am I looking for at bars?
I don't go clubbing or bar hopping much, that's not how I usually meet women. But I'm starting to do it more so that I get more comfortable in those environments. Tonight I had a few looks from some girls at the bar I...
Anonymous
(30-35) How to make that final push out my comfort zone?
As recently as a year ago I had real anxiety when approaching/talking to women. I'm a lot better now. However, if I meet a woman in in a club or bar, or at a social event, I do sometimes find it hard to go in for the kill...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do some women like boyish, younger guys?
It's weird. every time I go to a bar or a club I always get older women flirting with me and giving me attention. These women are like in their 30's and 40's. But when it comes to girls my age, I don't get any attention....
Anonymous
(36-45) How do I stop coming off as creepy?
I seem to have a bit of a problem when it comes to attracting women at bars and clubs. Whenever I see a woman that I might want to try to charm, my way of flirting almost always creeps them out. How can I approach women...
mlrock
Xper 6 Age: 35 I'm a little confused, why doesn't he say anything?....please read and please help
This guy and I have had our ups and downs in the last year. We never dated, we just run into each other at this local bar. He does treat me different, teases me like crazy or jokes around. If I get there after him, I go...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do women lie about why they go to clubs?
Lets see. wait in line... pay money for gas and drinks... get "bothered" by men who approach you and creepy drunk men, not to mention you're more likely to get raped. And not to mention the "worry" about what other women...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) How would you women like to be approached by guys in a club?
to women who don't mind or looking to hook up? club/pub/bars
Anonymous
(36-45) Do a lot of women approach guys in bars/pubs?
or is that something they just show on TV and in reality they just want to be with their friends?
Anonymous
(36-45) Women seem much more open/receptive on new years eve?
I've noticed that when I go to parties/bars/clubs whatever on new years eve, all the women are much more open to talking with me, and just seem easier to approach in general. Do you think women lower their standards on...
Anonymous
(36-45) Approaching women in clubs/bars?
What are some creative methods of approaching women at clubs/bars, or for the guys, methods that work for you? Should I wait for the girl to break off from her pack of friends before I make a move? Also, what's a good...
jesse0880
Xper 5 Age: 40 Your experience with using Match.com for finding someone special?
OK so I have used dating sites for years. Nothing has really come of it. I am very attractive and not crazy, I just don't get out much to meet men that I want. The men that approach me , it just doesn't work most of the...
Anonymous
(36-45) Ladies do you think my friend is right about how he gets so many girls?
He sent this message as a reply to my question of how he gets so many girls: "First of all, your thinking is all wrong. There is nothing sexual going on when I flirt with these girls at a party or in a bar. I grew up...
Anonymous
(36-45) How to approach a lot of women without seeming like a sleaze?
When I go out to a bar or club, I usually have to approach a lot of women before I find one I hit it off with. That's just the way things are, but I worry that when I've been going around trying to chat up a lot of girls...
TamLin
Xper 5 Age: 43 Girls how often do you get approached by guys in bars and in public?
And It would be good if you could post a response with your answer and a photo plus how often like an amount or ratio. I'm trying to figure who gets hit on the most and why. Like attractive women for looks Average...
DJ_Durrty_unk
Xper 6 Age: 37 How can a man get women to not flirt with him?
I am dating a very attractive girl right now but she is very shy and it makes her feel uncomfortable sometimes when women hit on me when we are together at a mall or a bar. I am always nice to women because I had three...
Anonymous
(36-45) What's the "perfect" approach for women?
if you and your friends were sitting in a bar, or walking through the mall and a guy wanted to speak to you, because he likes your look and wants to know more about you, how would you perfer he approach you?
suavaye
Xper 6 Age: 35 23 and never kissed a woman.
In the last 5 years I approach around 100 women and all of those approaches were rejections...I tried clubs,bars,school parties,the mall, stores,the street and nothing...I usually start my approaches with a " Hi how are...
Hyperion
Xper 5 Age: 37 Am I probably SOL for finding Ms. Right?
I'm 26, still a virgin by choice (more than a few girls have offered) and I've only dated 2 girls, never had a long-term relationship. In general I don't really hit on girls, I usually wait for them to approach me or ask...
Anonymous
(36-45) How to properly approach a girl you like?
Tonight I went out with a couple of co workers of mine to a bar and managed to strike up a solid vibe with our server, she attempted to open up opportunities for me to make a move by basically spilling beer on my arm so...
PassionPrevails
Xper 3 Age: 35 Men: If a woman is dressed more dressy than others at a bar, do you automatically assume she's high maintenance?
If a women is dressed up in skirt/dress, heels, hair done, and make-up do you assume she's high maintenance or trying to hard? Do you then not approach her? I've been told I'm pretty, but men don't approach me that often...
Anonymous
(36-45) 