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I've been chatting to a guy for a week, we instantly clicked. We went on our first date yesterday and our personalities and values were lining up well and we were getting along famously.

Attraction wise I'm only slightly attracted to his looks however there is a small attraction none the less on a physical aspect.

I did notice that some of his bottom teeth were not in the best shape and it kind of turned me off a little. Am I being shallow here? Would you continue to date someone that didn't have good teeth? Or is that a dealbreaker for you?

I liked this guy but it turns out he was shallow, fake and annoying. He had been gossiping about me with his ex, when I found out I first confronted him until she started butting in. Then I told her to fuck off. I barely knew this girl but she tried to come at me for being black. She started tanning, trying to stick out her butt, etc. I paid her no kind, so she started trying to gossip about me so I blocked her ass and him.
I never really met his friends but they assumed I was jealous, fat and ugly because I dont have any photos of me online. I got really sick of her coming at me sideways. She was all like im a model, blonde and blue eyes. I was like so? Im curvy, I have big beautiful curly hair and im nice. She took me saying im curvy as being fat.
Im actually naturally small and petite, but also fit. I work out and eat healthy. She looks like the typical starving, blonde makeup caked model. I dont need to be jealous of a girl built like boy. I have a nice flat stomach, abs, an ass and boobs.
I found out him and his friends do drugs and it became too toxic for me. I live around lots of white people. Lots of white blonde women are the standard of beauty. I didn't care until she tried bullying me. The same girl who said I was hating on her for being white tans her skin until it's orange and wears box braids in her hair. I dont wear weave or do anything to my skin. I dont do anything period that resembles a white girl and I dont look like one. She pissed me off bad.

I used to like this guy. I was always nice to him and talked to him. I'm very introverted and to myself, so it's rare for me to do that.
He was very mean to me when I was nice, so I stopped being nice to him. When I talked about important things he would say I was rambling about nothing. His friend would tell people he didn't have anything in his brain and I needee to shut up and stop thinking so much. I found out about his horrible spending habits, drug abuse and large number of friends. I tried to encourage him to invest his money instead, go to rehab and choose his friends more wisely. He called me a gold digger, controlling and a stalker.

I had enough. He'd tell me he liked me. But I realize I was a toy and entertainment for him. Hed go back and tell his friends I was a stalker and I annoyed him, he didn't want to hang out with me. I confronted him about gossiping about me with his ex and lying about liking me. It was automatically assumed I was jealous of her because she's a model, tall, blonde hair and blue eyes. But I think I'm beautiful no matter what.

I cut him off and never looked back. Ill never know or understand why he did those things, probably will never. I've come to terms with it. he's shallow. He told me he trusted young people because he liked their faces and he spent $1000 on a pair of jeans and popped pills. I dont think he's rich enough to travel, spend that kind of money on clothes, buy drugs and live in San Diego.

Anyways, all his friends wanted to be rich and famous. I started noticing them hanging around rappers with large IG followings. Im assuming they bought expensive clothes to impress those rappers. But I was very done wih him because his friend talked about eating coke.

My dad died from drugs, drinking and partying. It never interested me because I know what it does to your body long term. Exercising, resting and eating healthy is essential.

Anyways, Im glad I cut off fake people.