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So , I ve been talking to and hanging with this guy I like for a year and some ... He's never really asked to be my boyfriend or make it official. I have but he didn't give me a direct Yes. Anyways, He says he likes me, he said he loved me once or twice and I feel the same way. However , his dating ideas include beach in the night or coming over and watching movies with him which I dont find romantic or even making an effort. Once, I mentioned going for icecream with him and he has only made time at 8 or 9 in the night which I find late and not my scene. Whenever I want to do day dates he is always tied up with work.
Tonight , we got into an argument because he invited me to spend the day with him on Saturday which would 've involved fixing his car, going fishing with his cousin and him and goin beach (his cousin didn't even come). I told him I couldnt make it because I had a family friend stopping by that needed my help. He mentioned that tonight , among other things. He said I was a fraud , that I set him up too many times and he was not going to let me fool him anymore. He also said that the reason he likes me is not because of my ironic sexy self because he couldnt rate me and how he found my mother sexually attractive , that she has class, she is a freak, b*** and everything and am no way close and she is a real f***king woman.
He also said that he cannot take me seriously and I am a baby throwing a tantrum. So I told him that we are over, I cannot tolerate him even as a friend and I won't be disrespected any more and that he should lose my number. He snapped back and told me that am an emotional girl and that I should try not to break anything but I blocked him unblocked him to which he texted he was sorry and its all me that cause this and he didn't hate me but I hated him but then I just blocked him back. So is this what he has in his head or its just him being angry? Should I take him back?

I meet my husband in 2010 we had our first child in 2011. When I was pregnant he was talking to his babymama plus 5 other females. We ended up back together 2 months before we had our son. Had our second child in 2014. We been married for 8 months now. I'm 5 months pregnant with my very first girl. He and his babymama have been seperated since 2009. Before he meet me she would drive by his work call his phone like crazy stop by without a call tried running him over. Now my question is does he still love her? When we argue its not hard for him to get loud or to curse at me. When he makes decisions and changes them. She will try to make him feel bad. And we will argue and he trys to blame me for something he said. But when she calls him yelling and cursing he don't get loud with her unless I say why is it easy to disrespect me but not your babymama. Is this a sign he loves her still?