Search Results: fear of commitment

Don't know where I stand with her in this relationship, advice?

She had bad luck with guys in the past, and I think she's afraid of commitment. She doesn't want to lose me but I shouldn't wait for her, to save me from further misery. I told her upfront when we started dating that I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to get over your fear of commitment?

it's impossible for me to say "i like you". is there any way to make it easier? i think most guys that liked me and that I liked ended up thinking I wasn't interested because I can't tell them that I like them. I would...

invodkaveritas

Xper 3 Age: 38

If a girl confessed all of this to you, would you give her a second chance?

a girl and guy start hanging out and at first she is all for it, but then suddenly started to kind of pull away and you end up getting in a fight over religious beliefs one night, which is a major thing to you in your...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Would you give a girl like this a second chance?

a girl and guy start hanging out and at first she is all for it, but then suddenly she starts to kind of pull away and you end up getting in a fight over religious beliefs one night, which is a major thing to you in your...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If you dumped a guy because you're immature?

You didn't give him any closure or even recognize he exists after your break up and he sent you emails (some mean) looking for closure, do you ever someday realize that you were totally heartless and talk to him? You...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you aim to not be in a relationship - because you lose respect for /think less of yourself - -in one?

I have great difficulty accepting the idea of 'wanting to' be with someone, and or being with anyone (even tho, I'm in love) I think of being in a relationship, as something I would do if I was weak, irrational, clingy,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Why do we often overlook the good people?

I was reading some of the responses on one guy's forum, bout him not being into partying every weekend and stuff, and wanting to find a girl. He fit into the good guy group, so of course a bunch of guys got on there...

oOsweet~o~nessOo

Xper 6 Age: 32

Would you consider trying long term with a person who says they don't believe in love?

Its just the situation I'm in and starting to question the healthiness of it. I felt like Oasis Wonderwall said it best. Like I wonder if I can ever see her when she will break down those walls of fear about love. I...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Guys - how do you like to be swept off your feet?

A guy that I've been dating on and off casually for a very long time has decided that after having a fear of commitment, he wants to honestly try and see where things go for us. We're still not official, but he wants to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Am I In a Pseudo-Relationship With This Girl or Is She Just Using Me?

This girl and I have known each other for five or six years. We've always been attracted to each other, flirted, etc.. Each of us has tried to start something over the years but nothing really ever happened (we've both...

MyManMitch

Xper 3 Age: 47

Guy's Behavior

Why is lack of interest in commitment always interpreted as fear of commitment?

Lots of guys simply have no interest in commitment. For some, it's not ever; for others it's not right now, but in either case it could be based on many things other than fear. However women invariably interpret it as...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Guys, fear of commitment: Legit reason or easy, vague way to break it off?

Guys, Fear of commitment: Legit reason or easy, vague way to break it off?

Anonymous

(36-45)

What makes a man so scared of commitment?

My ex and I had been dating for six months. We fell in love and said "I love you" a lot. Then out of nowhere he told me that he's afraid of commitment and broke up with me. He still tried to be my friend after the break...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys really run from their emotions?

Would a guy who has been hurt badly in the past really avoid a girl because he is scared of how strong his emotions are for her? Can fear of commitment really be that strong?

Anonymous

(36-45)

I'm trying not to be so affectionate out of fear that it may turn him off or push him away. IS my behavior normal or a little too much?

Hi guys, I'm 25 years old and I'm currently "dating" my ex boyfriend who is 27, again. In total we are going on 2 years "together" you can say. In the beginning he said he didn't want a commitment and I was fine with...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Met guy online, been dating, he wants to take it further so soon...

So I met a guy on a dating site. Things have going pretty well. Its still really new but so far we seem to get along great. he's kind of out the range of the type of guys I normally date, but I enjoy his company and he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What is the mental/emotional process with females dating "a**hole" guys?

For the majority of females that consistently date "asshole" guys, do they want "good" guys but make bad choices, or do they intentionally choose "asshole" guys do to fear of commitment, etc.? I am asking this ? because...

Prof_Don

Master Age: 40

For the majority of females that consistently date "asshole" guys, do they want "good" guys but make bad choices, or do they intentionally choose "asshole" guys do to fear of

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