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not restricted to dating, could be which person you'd prefer to have as a friend. I don't know they're like contrasting characters. Tried to think up a lot of traits for each type of person, one's darker while the other is lighter in personality lol.
1) Mature, responsible, smart, has some form of minor mental illness (depression, anxiety, eating disorder, etc. which ever), dependable, mysterious, dark. Someone you can go to for a serious talk or if you need advice. Has more of a pokerface and is pessimistic. Prefers being alone. Independent, fully supports your choices, thinks more logically than emotionally. Awkward with emotions so they aren't the best at cheering you up or with their words when happy for you. Puts others first, makes decisions that will benefit their future and values family. More of a good girl.
2) Cheerful, bright, optimistic, smiles/laughs a lot, easy going and down to hang out anytime. Mentally healthy. Can't really be serious often, jokes around, really social. Not the smartest nor the most responsible. Reckless and impulsive but caring. Comfortable with emotions and able to react to your emotions more easily. Can be dependent on you sometimes. Can be selfish and often makes bad decisions. More of a bad girl.

My coworkers keeps saying my male coworker has a crush on me. We like to play around at work. We've been told we argue like a married couple. We've also gotten to a point where we were not nice to each other. My work did seating arrangements and we now sit next to each other. We get along really well now. Please don't tell me it's a bad idea. I won't date anyone at work. Bad experience before.
He comes to my desk sometimes. Even though he sits 2 feet away. We also talk to everyone else within the perimeter so it's not just us. He recently followed another coworker on social media (she has a boyfriend and she's 19). I personally think he's attracted to her (but she doesn't think so) Recently I did something creative and drew pictures of everyone. He posted my drawing of him on social media. Everyone thinks that's some type of sign he digs me. He comes to my desk and looks at my photos on my wall. However when he looked at my pictures he literally looks at them by laying his body across my desk in front of me. He then points to one picture and says this is cute.
Now my coworker is quirky and he talks to EVERYONE. He approaches others and he's curious in nature. So I feel like everyone is fantasizing us both. We are just both very friendly and sociable/comfortable with people. However he's going through a divorce and has children. I don't want these rumors going around. So after work I told him hey our coworkers are spreading rumors right now. They're trying to set you, another co-worker (one that has bf) and I up and think we have a thing. You should tell them you have a girlfriend to like nip it and stop it. He's like what gf? I don't have one. I'm just like yeah make it up or something. He's like well maybe we should make it a double date. I'm like huh? I don't get it. Just say you have a girlfriend. However I did it in a nice manner of course. How do I stop the rumors? I really do not think he likes me like that but everyone else is convinced. What should I do?

My coworkers keeps saying my male coworker has a crush on me. We like to play around at work. We've been told we argue like a married couple. We've also gotten to a point where we were not nice to each other. My work did seating arrangements and we now sit next to each other. We get along really well now. Please don't tell me it's a bad idea. I won't date anyone at work. Bad experience before.
He comes to my desk sometimes. Even though he sits 2 feet away. We also talk to everyone else within the perimeter so it's not just us. He recently followed another coworker on social media (she has a boyfriend and she's 19). I personally think he's attracted to her (but she doesn't think so) Recently I did something creative and drew pictures of everyone. He posted my drawing of him on social media. Everyone thinks that's some type of sign he digs me. He comes to my desk and looks at my photos on my wall. However when he looked at my pictures he literally looks at them by laying his body across my desk in front of me. He then points to one picture and says this is cute.
Now my coworker is quirky and he talks to EVERYONE. He approaches others and he's curious in nature. So I feel like everyone is fantasizing us both. We are just both very friendly and sociable/comfortable with people. However he's going through a divorce and has children. I don't want these rumors going around. So after work I told him hey our coworkers are spreading rumors right now. They're trying to set you, another co-worker (one that has bf) and I up and think we have a thing. You should tell them you have a girlfriend to like nip it and stop it. He's like what gf? I don't have one. I'm just like yeah make it up or something. He's like well maybe we should make it a double date. I'm like huh? I don't get it. Just say you have a girlfriend. However I did it in a nice manner of course. How do I stop the rumors? I really do not think he likes me like that but everyone else is convinced. What should I do?