Search Results: listening to my heart

Why, upon achieving confidence / having life figured out, do we lose empathy for others?

My youth was lost to hard work, doubt, and insecurity. I was always wanting to help people, be there for them, be supportive, caring. Sure, I was probably a people pleaser. Well, I got tired of working so hard for no...

PsychedelicZebra

Xper 7 Age: 41

I haven't let go of the man I love...have you let go of the man or woman you love?

I know he was the one for me. He was as perfect for me as they come, but because of my insecurities and fear of getting hurt, I treated him badly and pushed him to leave. We were together over a year, been broken up for...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How can I get a real life because I am lost on this subject?

I am a guy that people have just never really liked I have no friends and never really have people have claimed to be my true friends but as soon as they found a reason they just cut off from me completely. For some...

loner1985

Xper 5 Age: 40

Which is better: Listening to your heart or your mind?

I'm just wondering how many of you actually think about this. When it comes to loving somebody, do you listen to what your heart tells you of what your mind says under the scenario where they are telling you completely...

HidingMyHeart

Explorer Age: 33

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Nice guy or player in disguise?

So I've known this guy who I've considered my friend for the past 9 months or so. We both didn't know we liked each other cause he thought I was always involved with someone else, I never bothered cause I didn't think I...

kit_kat86

Xper 4 Age: 39

Dating

He won't stop calling & texting me...

Well.. Here's the story: I've been together with this guy for more than a year. He even lived with me and my family for a short time because he didn't have an apartment. We always had fights because of other women since...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What should I do about this guy?

I feel like I'm unable to move on because he's always on the back of my mind. I'm holding on to that little bit of hope that things will work between us, that's what my heart wants. But my head is telling me that it's...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is this the behavior of a guy friend?

So me & my guy friend became close last year our junior year. He would write poetry & he would share his poetry with me,ask me for advice on it.We started to talk again in the month of December before winter break.He was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Loving Boyfriend in Air Force, feel like about to break up..What's going on? What should I do? Help PLEASE!

I've been with my boyfriend for a yr. now. Went to high school together, he's 23 & I'm 18. He comes back from Afghanistan in a month & as of right now I think/feel like we're over. Is this fixable when we see...

HCl2theHeart

Xper 3 Age: 33

My ex started seeing a guy. I make huge mistake. She contacted me today?

OK so, 4-5 months (I think - roughly) ago me and my ex broke up. I treated her pretty badly, and she had to actually force herself out of the relationship. No cheating, no beating...just downright stupidity Anyway, for a...

very-confused

Xper 4 Age: 50

Society & Politics

How do I know when its time to stop listening to my heart and listen to my brain?

I've been on and off flirting with this guy since summer and it seems like we talk for a month and then something goes wrong. he's super flirting and I know he's great at making girls fall for him. it seems like every...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

I feel led on. Did he really like me or what?

So I'm 18, and a senior in highschool. Well, there is this guy that I really liked alot. He's 17, in the same grade as me. Well anyways, we became really good friends, and then it got to the point, he seemed interested...

jandres

Xper 5 Age: 33

Want to know why the nice guys never win and why the assholes always get the girl the nice guy wants?

Well here you go, "The Nature of Assholes of Nice Guys." It's amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it, it's not that amazing. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they lavish their...

SoberIrishman

Xper 7 Age: 37

Flirting

Should I tell him how much I really like him? and how do I say it?

I really, really, really like this boy who I met about a month ago. He is so nice, and sweet, and kind an he is just amazing! You could kinda tell he liked me too. But he liked this other girl too. He asked me if I liked...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Should I tell him how much I really like him? And how?

Anonymous

(30-35)

You've Changed My Life

Honey, Thanks for being there when I needed a shoulder to lean on, for patiently listening to my personal problems. Baby, I just want you to know how happy am I to have you in my life and I thank God for that. Thank...

anthonyj72102

Xper 3 Age: 31

Why is it that I find myself picking up the pieces easier than others? Am I going crazy? Help please.

I don’t know how I’ve survived this long. I read tumblr posts and Facebook statuses about how they’ve let someone in and that someone just destroyed their lives with a single word, a gesture or lack of it or even with a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does this song mean?

So I was listening to this song, and it remind me of my ex boyfriend (I still love him and he acts like he loves me). What is the meaning of this song to you? This is the lyrics to Chris Daughty's song "What about now"...

AllisonLynn

Xper 5 Age: 36