It's amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it, it's not that amazing. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they lavish their undying love. It's a charade. They act nice, friendly, and they listen… until they get into what they're after. Their prey thinks they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the asshole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the asshole into a nice guy, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the nice guy to complain about the asshole. But she claims to love the asshole… Now this is where the theory begins. She doesn't want to look like she is easy so she won't dump the asshole right away; instead she will stay with the asshole. Girls are idiots. They don't realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be a good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that; however, girls don't see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn't THAT naïve. He was trying to win the girl he listened to all along.
The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening. Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don't say, "Oh he's hot" or "I want to have his children" about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don't need it from the asshole. The nice guy gets the sh*t end of the stick while the asshole gets all the action. I am starting to wonder if being a nice guy is really the route to take to get action… I have been down this path for all of my post-pubescent life and it has gotten me NOWHERE… at least not in the women department. Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the asshole is because assholes ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, "Why isn't he paying attention to me?" so they explore why. They poke and prod and get closer to the asshole. They start to get easier with each attempt to get closer. The asshole finally says, "I've let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass". It is then he puts on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him… even thought all she has won is an asshole. Once you have gone down the path as a nice guy or a "listener" you can't turn back. The girl will always go after the assholes because there are always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a "listener" you can't do anything about it… just pack up and close shop. There is no way you will get her… ever.
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ok put yourself int his situation: There is a girl who really likes you, you know she'd do almost anything for you to show she likes you, she's a good person, kind, giving maybe a little too giving cause she always phones , texts you and wants to know everything you are up to which can be annoying but she can't help it she's trying to be a nice girl and show that she wants you...you know that she'd forgive you for things and you know that she'll do most things you ask...honestly can you respect that girl? like would you? no cause you know at the end of the day she'll be by that phone waiting or she'll always be there if things don't work out for you with someone you really like. We all know that we need to respect a person to truly like them in the first place in a romantic way...I bet there have been girls who are total nice girls and you know they'd treat you like supper great if you went with them but somehow they don't have that special thing or there is something they don't have that makes you truly wanna be with them..you wish you liked them back but you just don't...and I bet there are girls who confuse you but you just like them right...I think that girls don't want the super nice guy or the ass face jerks...they want a guy with a balance of it and you just gotta find that
it's true it seems like girls go towards a**holes...because some of them just like to be treated badly, like they wouldn't say it but inside it's what they gravitate towards...For most girls we need space at times giving a girl tooo much attention all the time everyday is gonna make her not appreciate the guy, so the a**holes give them the space they need maybe even more than they need but at least they are not getting suffocated...and girls aren't the only ones going for a**holes guys go fo
guys go for the hoes on the down low, for the bitches, for the users instead of the nice girls...asc oncerning what I explained in my answer , I think it's really bad of us humans to not like the person who so obiviously and passionately shows us how much they like us even from the beginning...the person who sacrifices and takes risks for you, and somehow we don't like them back :/ but you gotta treat the girl the way you wanna be treated...but hey if you like a girl ask her Q's and get the A
Wow! Your comment offers an incredible glimpse inside the entitled mindset and thought process of a privileged princess! The situation you described:
"There is a girl who really likes you, you know she'd do almost anything for you to show she likes you, she's a good person, kind, giving maybe a little too giving cause she always phones , texts you and wants to know everything you are up to which can be annoying but she can't help it she's trying to be a nice girl and show that she wants you... you know that she'd forgive you for things and you know that she'll do most things you ask]"
To a genuine nice guy who gets mostly rejection or friend zone treatment from women, the situation above is basically a miracle dream come true! It's like wandering through a dessert without water till you're near death from thirst and then find water! You don't suddenly complain that it's not soda pop or fruit juice! I guess it shows how spoiled many women are from constantly being accepted and loved!
Not respect her...
Stop respecting your parent cuz they will be there for you.
@circlebill yah the iritating stupid people date other iritating stupid people @indian_empress_91 got perfect explenation to all "niceguys"