Why do girls hate nice guys?

[Anonymous]

Why do girls always prefer the punk and bastard and asshole types?

I have been nice all my life, but i also have sense of humour i am not a boring guy, but i am not asshole either. But look, today i am 27, and still lonely. Never had a girlfriend in my entire life, even though i talked to thousands of girls. I am also not bad looking, most people rate me 7 or 8.

[razelove]

Well because guy A is aggressive, he's a taker. Most women I've met, even those who've been burned a lot are givers, hell, my roommate had never had a back massage before, she's 29. Giver. Guy B, that's you, nice guy, now you're a giver. If you got two givers in a relationship, who takes so someone can enjoy the giving, and keep that dynamic going?

I'm a giver, but I'm also a sadist, so what I'm giving is kind of double edged, and I will definitely take in bed.

Try speed dating. I 100% guarantee that even if you don't hook up, you'll have a good time.

[PrudentGuy]

"Are we falling in love with the same person?" Sex and the City.

No. Many girls like good guys. But you kept falling for the same type of girl and hence got the same response.

Try dating a girl you usually ignore or "hate". See if the tide change for you.

[Rine_Nin]

Because we feel a sense of duty to make a bad guy good.. I don't know i can't control it either.. also nice guys are nice to everyone.. when bad guys are nice.. its like pretty special.

[SuperManiac]

Did you ask any of the thousands of girls out, flirt, move in close? Maybe you just need to step it up with the boldness.

[Asker]

Yes, asked to many girls. Some even flirted a bit, but at the end of the day, most said "it is just good to stay as friends with you", or they ran away or made up stories and excuses to leave me. Just because i was very Good and nice to them

[SuperManiac]

Maybe you need a tiny bit of evil, like a rogue-like charm. I don't know since I'm kind of an asshole. :-D But it helps sometimes to sort of seduce a woman with your eyes, to be a little "threatening". That sounds bad but just trying to balance you out.

I had this friend once who was particularly good with the ladies, but he had the most chauvinistic mindset. Over beers, he would rant to me about how if the world faced an apocalypse, women would not be able to survive without the protection of men. And he'd say things like a man sees what he wants, he should take what he wants. Sounds monstrous (although he wasn't as bad in his actions as his words).

Some parts of that sank in with me, and even though I thoroughly disagree, some of that mindset can sometimes help to be a bit bolder with women -- to be bold, to take, to conquer. It is not kind, and this is no suggestion to become a guy who crosses boundaries (my friend wasn't either as far as I could tell) -- but a mindest to affect your body language and the way you look at women which might change things a bit for you.

[InfobotsMom]

The idea that girls don't like nice guys is bullshit. There are millions of guys in relationships and they aren't all assholes.