Apparently Im too nice. And that pushes the girls away for a reason. Is that true? Do girls hate a nice guy? And prefere a way less nicer guys. Who sould treat them like shit?
Why do girls hate a nice guy?
They just want confidence. Also not all girls are equals... some of them need to be treated like shit or at least deserve it.
I think dudes that are just nice because they hope a reward for being nice (vagina) may be an outcome... kinda lame. If not downright rapey... like the dudes that get mad about being friend zoned when that's all they've been pretending to be.
Also if they're the type of guy that's just hen pecked and cucked to no end bending over backwards to satisfy women in hopes of getting sloppy seconds also looks lame. Having confidence sort of implies you'll have a spine or will stand up for yourself when another does you wrong... even if that other person has the vagina.
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Some girls like guys that are "assholes" because they show to be extremely confident and they're fun to be around because they have a "dont give a fuck personality". I say stop caring so much about what girls think. Don't stop being nice obviously because the good guy wins at the end. Be a gentlemen but don't be so nice where she starts getting bored of you. Be an asshole but in a joking way. I was always the nice guy growing up but I realized girls will like you more if you point out their insecurities haha it's just the way it is.
Growing up in an abusive home I ruined several relationships with nice guys. Apparently when he was nice, put me first, and would not argue no matter what, I was out of my comfort zone and didn’t know how to react. Two abusive marriages later I am now involved with a “nice” guy and couldn’t be happier.
You just need to keep looking for that woman who will appreciate you. I promise there are some out there!
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I dont really think they hate you. I think this has to be something about insecurity. If you're too nice then girls might think you're too nice now and then you'll change, they probably think you're acting to get something so they dont trust you. You change only if you want and feel like it, but my advice if you're a nice person, dont let people take advantage of you
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There’s actually been studies done on this, and sorry for the nice guys but it’s true that women don’t like nice guys as much. I’m not sure of the details, but you can search it up
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Girls don't hate nice guys... you're just not compatible.
Here's the thing: there are so many guys claiming to be nice but in reality are just self-loathers with this negative attitude about girls. They assume that every girl who rejects them is not into nice guys. This is so full of crap.
Compatibility is key... every girl I know of wants a nice guy and is only "mean" when needed. -
Studies have been done. Reason is that women prefer someone who is assertive and that nice guys tend to lack this trait.
It's easily fixed by letting it be known that you'll stand your ground, but through subtle action. -
Who knows, why do guys tend to go for the sluts, gold diggers and all around bitches?
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I have been told im nice often also. I held the door i comforted people i gave my jacket to others. Last year I stopped caring about other people and honestly it is so much better, girls find it "cool" or some stupid crap.
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I've found that if a guy is too nice it makes them seem a bit creepy. But if you're not creepy nice then maybe it's the girls you're around?
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They don't.
Slags hate them
But if you're a suck up sort then you're not nice you're just weird and have no balls. -
Because women are evil.
This has always been known to mankind, but hidden in feminist society -
Because nice guys are boring to them.
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Being "nice" isn't special. That's why.
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