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We are in a long distance relationship with someone living in NZ and is from my home country only. It's been a month now. And he asked me what my goals are and I said I'm not sure but want to do mba in my home country and work here where as he is in NZ and is calling me there. He said me I should take loan to pay for fees of NZ masters and come there and stay with him and do masters in NZ and that I shouldn't worry about job thingy. So bdw, I'm an introvert and have less friends and he was like name three friends and I just have one best friend to be honest and he asked me why I don't have friends. I am very reserved and he has problem with me not having friends stating how will I grow despite having a good job and that I won't be able to survive in corporate world. He said me thrice that in home country, you're paid less and abroad you're not and that I should come to NZ. He asked me why i, 23 year old girl not getting promoted and i said that it's p been a year and a half. He is 24 and asked me why no wfh for me and I said the reason that I don't have access to those softwares at home and will resume office after lockdown gets over coz here still everything is shut. He said that he'll leave me if he gets someone like him. I asked him why not leave me right away and he said that he doesn't have anyone rn. He don't have time to find one. He wouldn't leave me because he loves me. Such contradictory statements. He suddenly talked about pre-nup that he'll make me sign before marriage stating I won't get a single penny after divorce that made me wonder why he talked to me like that. He aslo mentioned about the break up part and asked me if I want to break up and I said that if you have problem with me, you should break up and make decision right away. Then he says he doesn't wanna break up. I totally don't understand what to do. Should I break up?

Few things happened over the past weeks that have been driving my husband crazy
1.) I focus a lot on studying. I haven't cooked anything during quarantine until he asked me to. He was eating frozen food.
2.) He was laughing at a movie where the guy was being hit with a plastic stick and he starts laughing. I get upset at him for laughing. I apoligize for this the next day.
3.) We were watching Tiger King and the guy was abusing the tiger and he said "awww" and I get upset at him for saying aww because abuse is not cute. He explains he is saying aww because the tiger is cute. I apologize for this the next day.
4.) We were house shopping online and he said this house is off the table because it's too small for the price. I said we should at least see it. And after nagging he said its off the table. I get upset. I walk away from him as we were walking in the neighborhood. So I ended up walking by myself and so was he. and i yell at him in the apartment complex stairwell.
5.) I was so stressed I started yelling at him and accusing him of treating his family different than mine because he wanted to hangout with his because they social distance outside but not mine because mine only sit indoors. I screamed at him. He apologized and offered to make me dinner and I kept yelling at him. He couldnt sleep until 2:00am and had a hard time working the next day from exhaustion. As a result he leaves the apartment and goes to his parents house. he's been there for 3 weeks. He texts me all the bullet points of things I need to change about myself for our marriage to work. I responded but then ignored the rest of his texts because I didn't want to work our marriage issues over text. He insisted that for now he wants to text. After days of ignoring him he messages my dad a text about divorcing me. My dad is so upset at him and now my husband has cooled off a bit and says we need to talk before we come to this decision. But I text his parents to call my dad before he texts me to talk.