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I'm trying to court a white girl and she isn't like any of the other girls.

So I was trying all my usual stuff, joking, offering them a welfare ticket (worked with the black girls really well), lying about how wonderful they are as people, or just swearing not to beat her (which works with the Indian girls) and give them a modicum of respect but she snubbed me! I have to up the ante!

I do not know how to flirt with white women. Please help? I believe money works but it has to be converted into something else instead of bank notes and McDonald's receipts.

I'll start by saying I realize one of the worst things one can do is to ignore someone for no reason. Well, that's exactly what happened.

I had a really great connection with a girl I used to call/text for a couple of months. We got along really great! It wasn't serious, although we often acted like it did by spending a lot of time messaging/flirting and being in constant communication.

For some reason, another girl got my attention who I went out with, which made me put girl 1 on hold. She sent me a few texts asking about me but not knowing what to say I just completely ignored her. It's now been around 3 weeks.

Now, I'm not someone who plays with people's feelings at all, much less purposely disappointing or worrying someone like that. I really did not intend on behaving that way and wish to re-initiate contact but don't know what to say.

I also don't like making excuses or even worse lying (not that I can even think of what to say if I did), but I feel telling the truth might make her misunderstand me and not want anything to do with me again, and I don't want that happening.

1. Should I tell the truth or make an excuse?

2. If I had to make an excuse, what can I possibly say?