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My friends were teasing me that I'm the blame for my dog getting fat. I mean we used to take her for walks but she tore up her color and we used to have a leash for her. My friend was like to my pup, "Aww poor Lena. Was Dana mean to you. Don't snap at me, get angry at Dana, she's the one that don't do it." My sister was like, "Why don't you ever take her for walks?" I told them that I did and we used to. Then my friend said, "Well buy her another one! So she won't be cooped up! Lena is Dana being mean to you?" Then they all laugh. I told my sister they were joking. He said, "No I am so not. Lena is squealing on you! Hahaha." I know they were just kidding but afterwards, I get upset and angry. It's been like that since I was a kid. EVERYONE use to pick on me A LOT. I got angry and the kids would pick on me some more because they loved making me angry. I've gotten better at accepting jokes but I always feel guilty.
Then my my friend asked me what I wanted to do Friday night. Then she said, "Hey! Don't be looking at your dad! You're a grown *** woman. You do what you want. You don't need your parents permission anymore!" I have Asperger Syndrome and people need to be careful what they say to me. They do but what is wrong with me?