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Nelson is 23 years old. He's 5'2, brown skinned, and has a face that looks like a 16 year old's. He never had vagin*al sex with a woman and never had a girlfriend. When Nelson was 14 he had oral s*x with a 16 year old girl in high school. The girl performed oral on him, made out with him, and sucked his neck. Nelson felt wonderful but she'd often call him ugly, stupid, and b*itch. A month after they had intercouse he overheard the girl saying that he looked like a child when naked, had a baby pelns and laughed and joked with her friends about how he was a such a V*rgin and pathetic. He also discovered she had a boyfriend and was practicing s*x acts on him to try on her boyfriend a month later. People would often laugh and tease Nelson for being short and childish. In high school Nelson was long term friends with a guy who was 6'1, popular, and had several girlfriends and was a well known foot bag player. Nelson always saw girls fall in love with this dude, love him while he was always overlooked and put down.


Nelson tries to be a kind, loving person but he has his moments. One time he lost all control of his emotions and started sobbing uncontrollably in public. He tries his best to control his emotions but he can't mask his true feelings in public. Nelson feels strong emotions and sometimes they explode in his heart. Nelson is highly intelligent. He makes A's and B's in science, math, and goes to college to be a doctor.

I went on a first date with someone. It was 2 hours. We had coffee, talked and walked around outside a bit. After the date he texted me I looked beautiful today and he would like to see me again and what’s my schedule looking like. Is this player like?
I’ve never bden complimented like this before and I’m easily tricked. I will not have sex with him yet either if that’s what he’s thinking to ease his way in.

Two weeks ago I met a guy at a party. We started talking, he was really nice and funny. We were both pretty drunk so after a few minutes of talking we kissed. The next day he texted me and since then we've kept in touch. He goes to the same class as few of my guy friends, but they haven't talked much until that party. My friends told me that they talk more since then and even want to start playing at the same basketball team.

But the thing is that I've heard from a few people that he's a player. I don't usually believe gossips, but few days ago I was with my friends and we've met one of his best friends. We started talking and he told us that the guy I've been interested in was pretty excited about our kiss (which I thought was no big deal for him because he kisses lots of girls) but this friend also mentioned that he's seen him that day on a date with someone. I don't really know if I should believe him because I saw on snapchat that he was with his friends then.

Recently he texted me that he wants to go out somewhere with me but I texted him that we should go all together (me, him and my friends who go to the same class with him). He texted that it's okay with him, but I don't really know how to act. I usually don't have problems with dating but I want him to be really interested in me, I don't want to become like all of these girls who date him because he's attractive.

So my questions are: Is it possible that he's interested in me or does he want to only get to know me but stay friends? Also, how should I act? Should I show him that I'm interested and risk beeing seen as most of the girls or should I be more reserved but risk that he'll think that I'm not interested?