I met this guy on the Internet and we went out for dinner when we first met in person. We talked a lot and we both had feelings for each other. When we walk along the river he mentioned this is our first date, we kissed and made out. The second day we went out for dinner again, still talking a lot and we had sex in my place. After that we didn't see each other for 5 days but he is continuing text me from moring to night. Then he ask me out for a movie date on weekend. He takes me to dinner, we played games together and cuddled for the movie. Everything goes well and he even implied me that he is only dating me right now. He kept texting me everyday until he went for his holiday. He mentioned he will gone for a month on the first date and text me before he got on the plane, said he will talk to me after he came back. We just talked 3 times during his holiday because i don't want to be needy. But he come back and never called. I asked him he said he is just tired and jetlagged. And he don't text me anymore. If i initiate the conversation he take hours to reply and just a few words. Then i found him flirting with another girl on the internet but he wouldn't admit it. Now i am planning on invite him to a Christmas party to end things up. I feel i was used by him sexually and he just pretend to want a relationship with me. But guys, would a guy text u everyday, care about your illness, and holding your hand in public just to have sex with u? He is being really sweet to me that i can't believe all this are fake. If he is a player, how can i get over with him quickly? I try to make myself busy but i start thinking about him the moment i stop. I even try to see other guys but i feel nothing but the sadness and loneliness. What can i do?
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I tried to ask him why but everytime i said i don't want to contact hime again, he just showed up with some explainatin.. And he is ignoring my texts and calls
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