Do guys ever stop being players?

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Java_God · Accepted Answer

Well actually if you try to go out with the physically fit cute guy they are much more likely to cheat because they "get all the girls" but if you go out with some one less physicllay fit and not so cute thay will cherish the relationship and not cheat because they think that they are lucky to even have you talk to them

JustWorthlessMe · Accepted Answer

NO... they know that they are good-looking guys who women will throw themselves at... screw one woman over, then onto the next because there will always be another.

If you look good, then women won't bother to worry too much about your personality. And most players are pretty obvious if the women cared to look.

Platypus007 · Answer

You want to know the truth...(but there is a caveat, exception at the end)... guys are loyal to their options. Think about that for a minute.
Now, how that is an exception, is because guys, like the model perfect looking quarter back, marries his high school sweet heart obviously, has more options right?
So, it’s a matter of a guys perspective, or what his options are.
All you have to do, is figure out, what is important to him, and how a girl/wife fits into that picture, and if he had the ability to achieve that goal.
Most guys your age haven’t a clue, but the ones who have figured out all their options, before their goals, well, you know who you just found

ChurchOfIron · Answer

Good point here is: a buttload of men are married. If they just wanted to play the game, then they wouldn't chain themselves down like that. But, average age of marriage is 26 for women and 29 for men.

Second: Most men *aren't* players, in my opinion. Most men suck with women. It's only like 5-10% of guys who are actual players.

But, women like players; so, no, they won't quit being players if they're smart. They like players, because being a player is being good with women. It's understanding what women want and giving it to them.

I think what you really wanna know is "is it possible to ever tie a player down."? In which case, I'd say yes, but only if you're very special. Only if you can give him what he can't get from other women. Ehh, well, those are my thoughts on it.

Riggers · Answer

You know what more annoying then players?

Girls who date guys with a reputation of being players expecting them to be different, And then, when true to form, they act like players, They act surprised and brandish all guys as players due to their shitty dating choices.

0112358 · Answer

Most guys never become players.

From what I've seen, guys who become players often settle down and marry and have kids. They tend to be very pragmatic and have a serious checklist in what they want in a wife, and don't settle down because they happen to meet the one, they settle down when they decide they're ready to.

Guys who were players in high school tend to settle earlier, if they don't become a player till early 20's, they won't settle down for -much- longer, on average.

ScaryCool · Answer

No. We're all players in this game of life.

But seriously, some guys it'll take forever to mature and get out of that phase. Some never will settle down. I definitely don't recommend believing you can 'change' them as it's gotta be them who decide.

TripleAce · Answer

Well if thats the type of guy you tend to date then ya expect him to have options and go where it suits him best

Maybe its not a bad idea to drop the standards a little and find someone who really values you rather than go for apperance

They're not players. Just they dont see you as the one. They aren't players to the get they actually want to be with

ManFrom1982 · Answer

Yes... In their 30s or 40s when they suddenly realize they have no one to take care of them when they eventually can't do so themselves. Basically when it's too late.

Don't wait for players to turn it around. Wait for the quiet, thoughtful ones to discover some confidence. You're 18, just give them some time and then grab a nerd who's suddenly realized how to be a man.

MrOracle · Answer

Among the portion of guys who are players, those guys rarely ever change. Most guys aren't players, of course, but if you find one who is, that's what he's going to be until he can no longer be a successful player.

Hugh Hefner was a player until the day he died, for example.

Ceramic_bloke · Answer

I never have and never will be.

Though you can only put the umbrella over so many people.
Whatever you think applies to a group of people only applies to so many.
There are many assholes in the world who can't see past their own desires, so I'd be confident in saying that plenty never stop.
Though most people mature as they age and will find the point where they don't want to anymore.
I believe that's the 'standard' course, but the actual varies dependant on the individual.

Desconhecida · Answer

I don't actually generalize. Guys are not all like this. They turn into this.
Players usually had bad experience with mean bitches. They start this behavior as a way of never let themselves vulnerable to suffering again.
Gladly its not for life. Eventually players find a girl who's worth to try again.

Czdrkd · Answer

1. Not all guys are playerd, you just happen to be attracted to players.
2. Woman are players just as well.
3. No player can ever stop. It's a part of their personality. But what I really mean is that they're just charismatic. You can't stop being a charismatic person, that's who you are. It just matters what your intentions are.

SGL69 · Answer

Never was a player. Hell I'm the guy who's shy around the ladies. Yes now I'm 49 but when I was younger I never were a type to play games. I was raised better than that. Yeah I never looked like the guy in the picture. I was a little bit over weight but I wasn't bad looking either. My goal was to find someone to love forever.

Josh13 · Answer

Do girls ever stop assuming every guy is bad? Not all guys are players. (This isn't an attack on you Molly0111) I'm just saying we aren't all bad just like all girls aren't all bad.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, when they’re getting old and unnatractive. It’s funny to see that most of men that post comments like «I’m faithful! I will never cheat on my girl! I will only love one girl!» are 50 years old, unnatractive men, since they don’t have a lot of options, they have to be the dreamy Prince Charming to get attention from girls

Buckzor · Answer

Yep, once they get bored of it. One of my mates is currently changing from a player to being more serious (he's a few years older than me too).

shinensta · Answer

Don't date guys that take selfies in their underwear and I think you'll be fine. Not all guys are players, but naked selfies are kind of a big red flag.

hotstuffSRD · Answer

Some are players  Some aren't  Just go for not the the player one's 😋

Tylisa1 · Answer

Nope. They might control it for a period but eventually it will reemerge and when it does. It will be even worse because they have been missing it for so long.

Logorithim · Answer

Yes, I know a couple of guys who gew out of it and are now happily married. Not all players do, of course. Some love the chase and the variety of women they pursue. It's mostly a thing for guys in their 20s, although my uncle was one until he was 55.

Benedek38 · Answer

1) You think guys are players because you are going after players. It is your own damn fault you can't choose a decent, loyal dude.  2) They are players exactly because you fall for it.

Hans222 · Answer

For some guys that probably is a problem :-( I like being playful on occasions but generally I'm a calm, friendly person.

Finchie40 · Answer

Yes stop going for guys that look like that lol if a guy is that much into his body then he is more than likely more into playing the field

descat · Answer

Who (the heck) said all the guys are players?  Ehm, and I don't think those who are players change (generally). ~ Descat

Prankster13 · Answer

Sometimes. But generally you'll be better off going for the ones that weren't players to begin with. Cause generally they stay not-players just like some players stay players. 🤷

Bluedream13 · Answer

Hell no, we just keep getting more attractive, if this was the case with woman theyd stay sluts until old age as well... the ones that master the art of makeup and pusbup bras do!

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Some guys are never players. Some are players for a few years while they're young and see no point in anythinf serious. Others just stay in the player phase for a long time.

Hurlyburly · Answer

Some guys aren't player to begin with, some other decide to settle down when they get more mature. Others stay this way for life.

LittleSally · Answer

Those who live as players will always have that in them... and will simply never be faithful.

samy_deadpool · Answer

when a boy grows up and become a man he does but if a guy is just a boy what can you expect? Date a man not a boy lol

dantetheexplorer · Answer

What is with all the stereotyping here? I feel like I'm in Crazyville.

VIVANT · Answer

the handful that are will not stop until no one will play with them.

LegendarySir · Answer

Some guys are never players. Some guys will never stop being players. Some guys will stop when they want to get serious. Some guys will stop when they can't play anymore.

Desuyonee · Answer

do ggirls ever stop being players?

sweetsugarplum · Answer

Guys stop being players when there is a girl who is worth it.

LadyJade007 · Answer

Yeah if they found someone who they’re madly in love with and want to get serious with their relationships

Browneye57 · Answer

Yes, of course. It's up to you to pick. We have both types from both genders on here - just browse and it's easy to tell between the two.

Anonymous · Answer

Guys will stop being players, when girls stop starting to have sex with them...

anshul177 · Answer

Can I ask the same question can girls stop being player or stop running for money by the way I'm not player I never played with any girl feeling but girls done and I have seen

icanthinkofauser · Answer

Do girls ever stop being sluts? Usually, as they grow up. Same with guys.

PhoenixItalian · Answer

when they find a woman who being in a committed relationship is worth it to stop looking for other options.

Tiffstarr · Answer

Players can stop being players. If they care enough to change for you.

Renegade_man · Answer

Nope but women are bigger players its all a stupid game most everyone plays

JesseTheMan · Answer

Players don't stop being players. Hang out in different circles or something if you wanna meet guys that are different lol.

BeHappy1985 · Answer

Once we fall in love and our heart gets broken, once we feel that pain that we bring onto others, a pain so strong that we never again wish to cause.

RobbieG · Answer

It really depends but generally if a "person" ( because girls do it too) is a player, they won't change but if they do, it takes many years of growth and maturity to bring about a slow change in them.

ajijjj · Answer

There are so many non players. You just keep falling for the douche bag cool guys. I don't know why. I mean, its literally so easy to spot whos the player and whos not. Come on now.

74hrbryd6e · Answer

Most guys are not players, guys serious about relationships don't pull bullshit like that

Lance1965 · Answer

It is mostly younger immature men that play that game.

gps181 · Answer

That's the same as "Do girls ever stop being hoes?" I think it's unfair to generalize half the population.

Anonymous · Answer

Hollyyyyyy the guy in the pic is the hottest thing I've seen all day.

hipstera17 · Answer

Guys aren’t mature until they hit a certain age. Past 20 I believe. At least girls mature better than guys.

Anonymous · Answer

Too fun in my opinion, it’s a much better thrill for me

MrMarvic · Answer

Most men are not "players". It's just the players you meet because they are... players. The other guys you need to go out and find yourself.

AdamMercer15335 · Answer

It depends on everyones personality, sometimes its girls and sometimes its boys.

MarcoP0l0 · Answer

It's a world where girls only go for Alpha males/players, so no

LizzyMarie21 · Answer

Yes actually but that's if they really wanna change

geminiboner · Answer

It's always possible, but it depends on person, nothing is like it in books, movies, or TV

JSmuve · Answer

I never knew I started being a player. News to me

Decentguy · Answer

do women ever stop being a hoe?

Cosytoasty · Answer

For the right girl, yes.

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