Well actually if you try to go out with the physically fit cute guy they are much more likely to cheat because they "get all the girls" but if you go out with some one less physicllay fit and not so cute thay will cherish the relationship and not cheat because they think that they are lucky to even have you talk to them
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NO... they know that they are good-looking guys who women will throw themselves at... screw one woman over, then onto the next because there will always be another.
If you look good, then women won't bother to worry too much about your personality. And most players are pretty obvious if the women cared to look.
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You want to know the truth...(but there is a caveat, exception at the end)... guys are loyal to their options. Think about that for a minute.
Now, how that is an exception, is because guys, like the model perfect looking quarter back, marries his high school sweet heart obviously, has more options right?
So, it’s a matter of a guys perspective, or what his options are.
All you have to do, is figure out, what is important to him, and how a girl/wife fits into that picture, and if he had the ability to achieve that goal.
Most guys your age haven’t a clue, but the ones who have figured out all their options, before their goals, well, you know who you just foundGood point here is: a buttload of men are married. If they just wanted to play the game, then they wouldn't chain themselves down like that. But, average age of marriage is 26 for women and 29 for men.
Second: Most men *aren't* players, in my opinion. Most men suck with women. It's only like 5-10% of guys who are actual players.
But, women like players; so, no, they won't quit being players if they're smart. They like players, because being a player is being good with women. It's understanding what women want and giving it to them.
I think what you really wanna know is "is it possible to ever tie a player down."? In which case, I'd say yes, but only if you're very special. Only if you can give him what he can't get from other women. Ehh, well, those are my thoughts on it.You know what more annoying then players?
Girls who date guys with a reputation of being players expecting them to be different, And then, when true to form, they act like players, They act surprised and brandish all guys as players due to their shitty dating choices.Most guys never become players.
From what I've seen, guys who become players often settle down and marry and have kids. They tend to be very pragmatic and have a serious checklist in what they want in a wife, and don't settle down because they happen to meet the one, they settle down when they decide they're ready to.
Guys who were players in high school tend to settle earlier, if they don't become a player till early 20's, they won't settle down for -much- longer, on average.No. We're all players in this game of life.
But seriously, some guys it'll take forever to mature and get out of that phase. Some never will settle down. I definitely don't recommend believing you can 'change' them as it's gotta be them who decide.Well if thats the type of guy you tend to date then ya expect him to have options and go where it suits him best
Maybe its not a bad idea to drop the standards a little and find someone who really values you rather than go for apperance
They're not players. Just they dont see you as the one. They aren't players to the get they actually want to be withYes... In their 30s or 40s when they suddenly realize they have no one to take care of them when they eventually can't do so themselves. Basically when it's too late.
Don't wait for players to turn it around. Wait for the quiet, thoughtful ones to discover some confidence. You're 18, just give them some time and then grab a nerd who's suddenly realized how to be a man.Among the portion of guys who are players, those guys rarely ever change. Most guys aren't players, of course, but if you find one who is, that's what he's going to be until he can no longer be a successful player.
Hugh Hefner was a player until the day he died, for example.I never have and never will be.
Though you can only put the umbrella over so many people.
Whatever you think applies to a group of people only applies to so many.
There are many assholes in the world who can't see past their own desires, so I'd be confident in saying that plenty never stop.
Though most people mature as they age and will find the point where they don't want to anymore.
I believe that's the 'standard' course, but the actual varies dependant on the individual.I don't actually generalize. Guys are not all like this. They turn into this.
Players usually had bad experience with mean bitches. They start this behavior as a way of never let themselves vulnerable to suffering again.
Gladly its not for life. Eventually players find a girl who's worth to try again.1. Not all guys are playerd, you just happen to be attracted to players.
2. Woman are players just as well.
3. No player can ever stop. It's a part of their personality. But what I really mean is that they're just charismatic. You can't stop being a charismatic person, that's who you are. It just matters what your intentions are.Never was a player. Hell I'm the guy who's shy around the ladies. Yes now I'm 49 but when I was younger I never were a type to play games. I was raised better than that. Yeah I never looked like the guy in the picture. I was a little bit over weight but I wasn't bad looking either. My goal was to find someone to love forever.
Do girls ever stop assuming every guy is bad? Not all guys are players. (This isn't an attack on you Molly0111) I'm just saying we aren't all bad just like all girls aren't all bad.
Yeah, when they’re getting old and unnatractive. It’s funny to see that most of men that post comments like «I’m faithful! I will never cheat on my girl! I will only love one girl!» are 50 years old, unnatractive men, since they don’t have a lot of options, they have to be the dreamy Prince Charming to get attention from girls
Yep, once they get bored of it. One of my mates is currently changing from a player to being more serious (he's a few years older than me too).
Don't date guys that take selfies in their underwear and I think you'll be fine. Not all guys are players, but naked selfies are kind of a big red flag.
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Just go for not the the player one's 😋Nope. They might control it for a period but eventually it will reemerge and when it does. It will be even worse because they have been missing it for so long.
Yes, I know a couple of guys who gew out of it and are now happily married. Not all players do, of course. Some love the chase and the variety of women they pursue. It's mostly a thing for guys in their 20s, although my uncle was one until he was 55.
1) You think guys are players because you are going after players. It is your own damn fault you can't choose a decent, loyal dude.
2) They are players exactly because you fall for it.
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