Why are guys such players?

[babyygirl7]

So I went out with this guy (Jaylin) . He's player-ish at times . But when we started texting on Saturday he was so convincing . Like he made seem that he wasn't a player and that he really did like me . Becuase I asked him why did he like me and he said 'Because your a really nice girl and have a great personality." And then he said "I really want too go out with you." And I told him too ask me . Then he did and I said yes . Well ... He broke up with me on Monday . Or that's what I heard . He never told me we broke up face to face , I heard that from everybody else at school . And so I sent him a little text ( : I said "Okay , so why is everybody telling me that you broke up with me ? If your going too break up with someone tell the person first , not the whole school ." And of course he didn't reply back . So now I'm thinking if he played me . Also , he has sex with like every girl he goes out with but that didn't stop me because I actually did like him . And I even asked him if he was going too try and have sex with me and he said yes . And I'm like okay . But anyways , my question is : Why are guys such players ?

[NothingGoldCanStay]

Attractive confident guys are usually players simply because they can be. Women love men with these qualities so why should he change. Expecially if women like you will still fall for it. If you don't want a player go for the shy guy, with the nerdy glasses, and who is a bit chubby. He will treat you like a queen.

[Anonymous]

Did he have sex with you?

[babyygirl7]

Nope

[TurbulentDan12]

Why are SOME guys players? Because by acting that way they can get in lots of girls pants. Some guys just want to have sex with as many girls as possible especially at your age.

[Anonymous]

In short, you sound like the type that attracts players.

It'd be a bit silly if you extended your narrow experience to generalize that all men are players, wouldn't it?

[babyygirl7]

Wait what does that second part mean ? Hehe , I'm slow ..

[raptor]

Q.A.: it means you're making a conclusion about a group with a very small amount of information.

[Pebyron]

You let yourself be played

Girls fall too easy