Why are most guys players?

[Anonymous]

It's a question every girl that's looking for love would ask.

[friendlyadvice]

There are as many players out there as nice guys. A lot of girls don't give the time of day to the nice guys. Many times the players are the ones who get the opportunity to date the girls because those are the type of guys many girls are attracted to.

Girls have the tendency to date the players and then complain there isn't anyone out there that's nice, when in fact, the nice guys have always been around but not given the chance. This also comes with maturity. Young girls are always (most of the time) attracted to the players, but finally realize when they get older that the right guy for them has always been by her side.

Good luck with your future. You're young and naive, but hopefully smart enough to allow the right people in your life that really do care about you.

Best,

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[Italo_DiscoFever]

Not all guys are players, infact a player couldn't exist without a nice guy to compliment him. Perhaps its the type of guys you normally are attracted to or the age group in which you are in. Younger guys have higher sex drives and are less likely to settle with one girl during that time. With all that said, maybe you should try going for a guy you wouldn't usually and you may be surprised. As for the other two guys you and your friend like, just be cautious. They could just be playing hard to get, but there's a line between that and just messing with your head. Until you know their true intentions I wouldn't proceed or follow through with anything major.

Good Luck.

- Harvey D

[Srumpkin]

True, most guys are players from puberty up to about 25. Some mature sooner, some later.

Know that guys mature later than girls. They do not need love from a girl, nor companionship. What they do want is sex. This is something to do with the development of the male brain and it probably stops him from taking on responsibilities with which he is unable to cope.

Girls can be dreadfully hurt because of this but if you're going steady with a guy and he says he ain't ready to settle down, know that he is probably telling the truth. He wouldn't admit it even to himself but he is still immature.

[ryanontario]

most guys around where I live aren't players but then most of the year expect summer there isn't really too many girls here so it be pretty hard to be a player here anyways , as there is so few girls most of the year in a small town as there off at college or allready married .

[WeaponZero]

They're not. Just the guys who happen to be able to get girls interested in them are, because girls dig "bad boys."

[GIntrovert]

Most guys are not players. Players just sleep with most girls.

[bayjell65432]

because abou 95% of guys want sex...plain and simple

[gabby_gorgeous]

LOL! Most guys aren't players. Some just think they are.

[Killfest400]

To make those of us who aren't look better.